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Women in the Longevity Industry: Perimenopause and the Paradox of Building What You Need

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Women in the Longevity Industry: Perimenopause and the Paradox of Building What You Need

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The Longevity Industry’s Biggest Blind Spot: Perimenopausal Women

SUMMARY

The longevity industry has built an elaborate, expensive infrastructure around living longer and healthier — and it was largely designed around male physiology. For ambitious women in perimenopause, the protocols often don’t just underperform; they can actively misfire. This post examines why the longevity movement’s blind spot exists, what the neurobiology of perimenopause actually demands, and what a truly effective, female-specific longevity strategy looks like.

Forty-Five Minutes of Longevity Content — and Not One Word About Menopause

Camille, a 49-year-old biotech executive, pushes through the final minutes of her Zone 2 cardio. The rhythmic hum of the treadmill is a familiar backdrop to her morning routine. Her eyes are fixed on the tablet, where a prominent longevity researcher expounds on optimal protein intake and the latest in epigenetic clocks. Forty-five minutes tick by. The podcast concludes.

Not once is the word “menopause” uttered. Not a single mention of the profound hormonal shifts that are, at this very moment, reshaping the biological landscape of women like Camille — the night sweats disrupting her sleep architecture, the weight accumulating around her middle despite her meticulous macros, the cognitive sharpness that has quietly dimmed over the past eighteen months. She closes the podcast, opens a new tab, and orders The Menopause Brain by Lisa Mosconi, PhD. She knows, with a deep and frustrated certainty, that something critical is missing from the conversation.

What I see consistently in my work with ambitious, health-conscious women in midlife is exactly this: they’ve done everything “right.” They’ve built elaborate longevity protocols — Zone 2 training, strength work, intermittent fasting, advanced diagnostics, supplement stacks — and then perimenopause arrives and the whole system starts to misfire. They feel like failures. They’re not. They’ve been following advice designed for a different biology.

What Is the Longevity Industry’s Blind Spot?

The longevity industry, with its gleaming clinics and biohacking protocols, offers a compelling vision: optimize the body, delay disease, extend healthspan. It champions measurable metrics — VO2 max, fasting glucose, sleep efficiency, epigenetic age. These tools have genuine value. But for women in midlife, a critical blind spot persists: the profound, often disruptive physiological transition of perimenopause and menopause.

This isn’t a minor oversight. It’s a fundamental misunderstanding of female biology that compromises the efficacy of many widely promoted longevity strategies. The protocols marketed as universal are, in practice, built on data generated primarily by and for men. For women navigating the hormonal upheaval of perimenopause, applying these protocols without adaptation isn’t just ineffective — it can actively backfire.

DEFINITION LONGEVITY INDUSTRY

The burgeoning sector dedicated to extending human healthspan and lifespan through scientific research, technological innovation, and lifestyle interventions. As described by Peter Attia, MD, physician and author of Outlive, it encompasses strategies to delay chronic disease and optimize physical and cognitive function. The industry focuses on quantifiable biomarkers and interventions aimed at slowing biological aging — but it frequently overlooks the sex-specific hormonal pathways that are particularly critical to women’s aging process.

In plain terms: It’s a multi-billion-dollar industry built around living longer and better — through diet, exercise, diagnostics, and targeted supplementation. The problem is that most of its foundational research was done on men, and its protocols often reflect that without acknowledging it.

Intermittent fasting is a useful example. It’s widely touted as a longevity intervention — and the evidence base for it is real. But its effects on women’s hormonal balance, particularly during perimenopause, can be substantially different and sometimes counterproductive. Extended fasting periods can increase cortisol, strain the adrenal glands, and further dysregulate hormones in a system that’s already in flux. What optimizes a 45-year-old man’s metabolic markers might actively worsen a 45-year-old woman’s perimenopausal symptoms. The protocols weren’t designed to account for that, and most longevity practitioners don’t acknowledge it.

DEFINITION PERIMENOPAUSE

The transitional period leading up to menopause, characterized by fluctuating ovarian hormone production — primarily estrogen and progesterone — and a wide array of systemic effects. Lisa Mosconi, PhD, neuroscientist at Weill Cornell Medical College and author of The Menopause Brain, describes it as a period of significant neuroendocrine change that can last several years, profoundly affecting brain health, metabolism, cardiovascular function, and overall well-being. It’s not merely a prelude to the cessation of menstruation — it’s a dynamic period of biological reorganization with consequences across the entire body.

In plain terms: It’s the years before your period stops when your hormones are in significant flux — causing everything from hot flashes and brain fog to sleep disruption and mood changes. This hormonal transition fundamentally alters how your body responds to diet, exercise, and stress. Any longevity approach that ignores it is working from an incomplete map.

The consequences of this blind spot aren’t abstract. Women are spending thousands of dollars annually on longevity protocols that weren’t designed for their biology, working with practitioners who are hormone-naive, and then blaming themselves when the results don’t come. The failure isn’t in their discipline. It’s in the design of the system they’ve been handed.

The Neurobiology of Perimenopause and Longevity

The perimenopausal transition is arguably the single most consequential physiological event in a woman’s longevity journey — and it remains profoundly under-weighted in the broader longevity discourse. The decline in estrogen isn’t merely a reproductive event. It’s a systemic shift with far-reaching implications for brain health, cardiovascular function, bone density, and metabolic regulation. Understanding this is foundational to any meaningful longevity strategy for women.

Roberta Diaz Brinton, PhD, director of the Center for Innovation in Brain Science at the University of Arizona and a leading neuroscientist in estrogen and brain health, has extensively researched estrogen’s role in neuroprotection and cognitive function. Her work demonstrates how the loss of estrogen during perimenopause significantly impacts brain energy metabolism and increases vulnerability to neurodegenerative diseases, including Alzheimer’s. The brain is a major consumer of estrogen. When estrogen declines, the brain experiences a measurable energy deficit — leading to cognitive symptoms and potentially accelerating neuronal aging in ways that standard longevity protocols don’t address.

Lisa Mosconi, PhD, at Weill Cornell Medical College has demonstrated through neuroimaging that perimenopause is associated with significant changes in brain structure and function — including reduced glucose metabolism and alterations in white matter integrity. Her research shows how the female brain undergoes a metabolic shift during perimenopause, becoming less efficient at utilizing its primary fuel source. This vulnerability can contribute to cognitive symptoms and increase long-term risk of neurodegenerative disease if unaddressed. Critically, estrogen also helps maintain the integrity of the blood-brain barrier; its decline can allow inflammatory molecules to enter the brain and contribute to neuroinflammation.

DEFINITION HEALTHSPAN

The period of life spent in good health — free from chronic disease and significant disability. Peter Attia, MD, positions healthspan as a primary goal of longevity medicine, emphasizing maintenance of physical and cognitive function for as long as possible. For women, achieving an optimal healthspan requires addressing the specific physiological challenges of perimenopause and menopause, as these transitions significantly shape the trajectory of healthy aging in ways that gender-neutral protocols don’t capture.

In plain terms: It’s not just about how long you live — it’s about how many of those years you’re living well, with energy, clarity, and independence. For women, that trajectory is profoundly shaped by how the perimenopausal transition is navigated. Ignoring it is like building a long-term investment plan while ignoring half the relevant market forces.

The longevity field, in its pursuit of universal biohacks, consistently fails to integrate this fundamental biological reality. Metabolic health, cognitive resilience, cardiovascular integrity — all three are profoundly influenced by the hormonal shifts of perimenopause, making it a critical leverage point for women’s long-term health. Without accounting for these hormonal dynamics, many longevity interventions — while genuinely beneficial in other contexts — miss the mark for women in this life stage. Intense exercise without adequate recovery, or restrictive caloric intake, can further stress an already vulnerable system, worsening symptoms rather than improving markers.

The connection between perimenopause and trauma reactivation is also directly relevant here. Stress hormones — cortisol and adrenaline — directly antagonize estrogen’s protective effects. A longevity strategy that doesn’t include nervous system support isn’t a complete strategy. This is something the longevity industry almost never mentions.

How the Blind Spot Shows Up in Driven Women

In my practice, I see the real-world consequences of this blind spot playing out in the lives of ambitious women who are anything but passive about their health. These are women who track their biometrics, read the literature, see functional medicine practitioners, and invest significant time and money in their well-being. They’ve done everything right — by the standards the longevity industry has set. And then perimenopause arrives, and the system they’ve built starts producing the wrong outputs.

Consider Simone, a 48-year-old venture capitalist who has been a devoted adherent of the longevity movement for years. She spends upwards of $12,000 annually on advanced diagnostics, personalized supplements, and fitness programs. Her mornings are structured: Zone 2 training, a strict ketogenic diet, cold plunges, daily meditation. Her metrics look good on paper. But in her mid-forties, she begins battling persistent insomnia, inexplicable weight accumulation around her middle, and a pervasive brain fog that makes it difficult to focus during critical board meetings. Her longevity physician — well-meaning but hormone-naive — suggests increasing her adaptogen stack and adjusting her circadian rhythm protocols further. It isn’t until Simone consults a menopause specialist that the root issue is finally named: her fluctuating hormones are driving everything, rendering many of her expensive longevity interventions ineffective or actively counterproductive. With appropriate hormonal support and targeted adjustments, she begins to reclaim her clarity and energy. Her previous efforts weren’t wasted — they were just built on a foundation that didn’t account for her actual biology.

What I see consistently in women like Simone is a particular kind of confusion and self-blame that comes from doing everything “right” and still feeling terrible. The longevity industry’s failure to address female physiology isn’t just a clinical gap — it’s psychologically damaging to the women who’ve built their identities around meticulous self-optimization.

The cognitive symptoms are often what drive these women to finally seek answers. Brain fog, attention difficulties, and word-retrieval problems are among the most alarming and professionally disruptive symptoms of perimenopause — and they’re almost never addressed in mainstream longevity content. If you’re navigating any of these, know that they have a neurobiological explanation and, in many cases, effective interventions.

The Research Gap: Why Women Were Left Out

The longevity industry’s blind spot for women didn’t emerge from malice. It emerged from decades of systematic exclusion in medical research — a structural problem with consequences we’re still living with. Until 1993, when the NIH Revitalization Act mandated the inclusion of women and minorities in clinical research, most medical studies were conducted almost exclusively on male subjects. The default human in medical science was, and in many contexts remains, male.

Caroline Criado Perez, journalist and author of Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men, meticulously documented the downstream effects of this exclusion. From car crash test dummies to drug dosages to medical diagnostic criteria, the male body became the template — leaving women systematically underserved and, in some cases, actively harmed by medical knowledge that didn’t account for their biology.

“Addiction begins when a woman loses her handmade and meaningful life.”

CLARISSA PINKOLA ESTÉS, PhD, Jungian analyst and author of Women Who Run With the Wolves

The longevity field is a direct heir to this research legacy. The protocols championed by its most visible practitioners — optimized for a generalized “human” body that is implicitly male — reflect a data set from which women’s biology was largely absent. The evidence base for intermittent fasting, high-intensity interval training, cold exposure, and many popular supplementation strategies was built primarily on male subjects. This isn’t an abstraction: it means that when an ambitious woman applies these protocols during perimenopause, she’s essentially running an experiment her doctor hasn’t read the literature for, on a body the study didn’t include.

Mary Claire Haver, MD, OB-GYN and author of The New Menopause, has been among the most vocal clinical voices calling out this gap. Her work emphasizes that the hormonal context of midlife women fundamentally changes how standard health recommendations apply — and that failing to account for this context isn’t conservative medicine. It’s a failure of care.

The knowledge deficit that results from decades of exclusion is real and ongoing. Many of the evidence-based longevity protocols promoted today are evidence-based primarily for male physiology. Women deserve better — and the first step toward getting it is understanding what’s been missing.

Both/And: Sequencing Longevity Protocols for the Female Body

This conversation doesn’t have to be either/or. The longevity field’s tools — strength training, Zone 2 cardio, sleep optimization, metabolic monitoring — have genuine value. They’re not the enemy. The problem isn’t the tools; it’s the failure to adapt them for a body whose hormonal context changes everything about how they should be applied. That’s the both/and.

Longevity protocols absolutely have value for women. And — for those protocols to be effective during perimenopause, they need to be sequenced and calibrated around a woman’s hormonal reality, not applied as if that reality doesn’t exist. Trying to optimize a perimenopausal woman’s VO2 max without addressing her estrogen status is like trying to tune a high-performance engine while running it on the wrong fuel. You might get some results, but you’re also doing damage.

Nadia, a 52-year-old academic, had been diligently following a popular longevity program for several years. She was proud of her consistent Zone 2 training and meticulous nutrient tracking. As she entered full menopause, she began struggling with unprecedented joint pain, accelerating muscle loss despite her strength training, and a pervasive fatigue that no optimization protocol seemed to touch. Her longevity coach, focused on universal metrics, couldn’t explain why her progress had stalled. It was only when Nadia consulted a physician specializing in menopausal health — who explained estrogen’s critical role in collagen synthesis, muscle maintenance, and cellular energy production — that the pieces began to fit. Her longevity efforts weren’t wrong. They were incomplete. With careful consideration of hormone replacement therapy and a recalibrated strength training protocol focused on progressive overload and adequate protein intake, Nadia’s trajectory changed. Her journey didn’t end; it evolved. It became more effective because it finally acknowledged her actual biology.

Stacy Sims, PhD, exercise physiologist and nutrition scientist and author of Roar and Next Level, has been one of the most important voices in translating this both/and into practice. Her research demonstrates that women need different training periodization than men — especially during perimenopause — and that the failure to account for hormonal phase in exercise programming leads to suboptimal outcomes and, in some cases, additional physiological stress. The protocol that builds resilience in a 35-year-old may deplete a 48-year-old navigating hormonal transition. Sims’ work provides a concrete, evidence-based framework for adapting.

This kind of recalibration — honoring the tools that work while refusing to apply them without hormonal context — is what genuinely sophisticated longevity care looks like for women. It requires practitioners who are willing to hold both the universal and the specific simultaneously. It requires women who are willing to advocate for that kind of care, even when their current providers don’t offer it.

The grief of realizing that your carefully built health architecture needs rebuilding is real. It’s worth naming. And it’s worth noting that this kind of recalibration — of identity, of strategy, of what you believe your body needs — is also the work that trauma-informed therapy can support, especially when the disruption touches deep beliefs about control and self-efficacy.

The Systemic Lens: Funding, Media, and the Research Priorities That Reflect Power

The longevity industry’s blind spot for women in midlife isn’t just a practitioner-level failure. It’s a systemic issue, deeply embedded in the landscape of scientific funding, media attention, and research priority-setting. The question of “whose longevity gets studied” is answered, consistently, by who funds the research and whose experiences are treated as universally relevant in scientific inquiry. Historically, that has meant male-centric narratives have dominated — and the longevity field is no exception.

Consider the disproportionate media attention given to male biohackers and their extreme longevity regimens, compared to the relatively sparse coverage of perimenopause — a transition that affects approximately half the world’s population and has profound implications for long-term health. This isn’t just a visibility problem. It’s a resource allocation problem. Research grants, venture capital for health technology, and the development of new diagnostic tools follow the prevailing narrative. When the narrative ignores women’s midlife health, the funding and innovation follow suit.

This creates a self-perpetuating cycle: less research on women produces fewer tailored solutions, which reinforces the perception that women’s midlife health is a niche concern rather than a central pillar of human longevity. Breaking this cycle requires deliberate counter-pressure — from researchers who prioritize female-specific questions, from practitioners who demand better evidence, from investors who recognize the enormous underserved market that ambitious women in midlife represent, and from women themselves who refuse to accept generic answers to specific questions.

The parallel in clinical medicine is worth noting. Rebecca Thurston, PhD, professor of psychiatry, psychology, and epidemiology at the University of Pittsburgh, has documented the significant research gap in women’s menopausal health and its downstream clinical consequences. Her work underscores the direct link between chronic stress and menopausal symptom severity — a finding with enormous implications for longevity, because the stress systems and hormonal systems of perimenopause are deeply interconnected. Managing one without attending to the other produces incomplete results at best.

The longevity industry will not center women’s health voluntarily. It will do so when the economic pressure and the scientific evidence are too significant to ignore. Part of what moves that needle is women like those I work with — who refuse generic protocols, who demand menopause-literate care, who invest in practitioners who actually understand their biology, and who speak openly about the failures of the current system. The grief and identity disruption that can accompany this transition are worth naming here too: there’s often something deeply unsettling about realizing that the systems you trusted to care for your health were designed without you in mind.

For further context on how these systemic dynamics play out in specific professional environments, the posts on perimenopausal physicians and perimenopausal founders illuminate how the longevity blind spot intersects with professional identity and sector-specific pressures.

What Actually Works: A Female-Specific Longevity Path Forward

For ambitious women navigating perimenopause who want to actually optimize their longevity — rather than just spend money on protocols designed for someone else’s biology — the path forward requires a clear-eyed, integrated approach. Here’s what I consistently see make a meaningful difference, grounded in the evidence and shaped by clinical experience.

Find a menopause-literate physician — and make it non-negotiable. This is foundational. Most general practitioners aren’t trained in the nuances of perimenopausal and menopausal health. Seek out specialists — gynecologists or integrative physicians with genuine expertise in hormonal health — who can guide you through hormone testing, discuss the evidence on hormone replacement therapy honestly and individually, and help you develop a plan that accounts for your specific hormonal reality. A truly menopause-literate physician treats the hormonal context as the starting point, not an afterthought. If your current practitioner isn’t engaging with your hormonal status when you’re designing your longevity protocol, it’s time to find a different one. You can connect with our practice to explore what support might look like for you.

Prioritize strength training, adapted for your hormonal phase. Stacy Sims, PhD, is emphatic on this: women in perimenopause need to lift heavy and prioritize protein intake to counteract estrogen-related decline in muscle mass and bone density. This isn’t about aesthetics. It’s about functional strength as a cornerstone of longevity. But the critical addition is calibrating training intensity and recovery to your hormonal reality — not just following a generic progressive overload protocol that doesn’t account for where you are in your hormonal cycle or phase.

Consider hormone replacement therapy with full information. Mary Claire Haver, MD, author of The New Menopause, provides extensive evidence for HRT’s role in mitigating perimenopausal symptoms, preserving bone density, and potentially reducing the risk of cardiovascular disease and neurodegenerative conditions when initiated at the right time. This is a deeply individualized decision — one that requires a real conversation with a menopause-literate physician, weighing your personal health history and risk profile. But it deserves to be on the table as a legitimate longevity intervention, not dismissed as a symptom management tool.

Protect sleep as a primary longevity intervention. Sleep disruption is often the domino that takes down everything else — cognition, metabolic health, emotional regulation, inflammatory markers. For women in perimenopause, this disruption is frequently driven by night sweats and hormonal shifts, not just poor sleep hygiene. Addressing the underlying hormonal cause matters as much as optimizing the environment. Cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) can be effective for the sleep-anxiety loop that develops once sleep disruption becomes entrenched.

Include trauma-informed care and nervous system support. The hormonal fluctuations of perimenopause frequently reactivate past trauma, increasing anxiety, irritability, and emotional dysregulation — all of which directly antagonize the physiological goals of longevity. Bessel van der Kolk, MD, psychiatrist and trauma researcher and author of The Body Keeps the Score, has documented the profound connection between trauma and physiological dysregulation. Managing chronic stress isn’t separate from longevity strategy; it’s central to it. Somatic practices, mindfulness, and structured therapeutic support aren’t soft add-ons. They’re foundational.

Recalibrate your metabolic approach for hormonal reality. Estrogen plays a direct role in insulin sensitivity and fat distribution. As it declines, insulin resistance often increases, and fat preferentially redistributes to the abdomen. Standard dietary approaches that worked well in your thirties may no longer be adequate without adjustment. A focus on whole, minimally processed foods, adequate protein, and strategic carbohydrate timing — calibrated to individual metabolic testing rather than generic targets — becomes increasingly important.

Support cognitive health proactively. Given what we know about the perimenopausal brain’s metabolic shift, proactive cognitive support is a legitimate longevity priority. Lisa Mosconi’s research points to the role of nutrient-dense foods, omega-3 fatty acids, regular physical activity, and mentally stimulating engagement in supporting brain health during this transition. Protecting cognitive vitality during perimenopause is likely a meaningful strategy for long-term brain health — including potentially reducing risk of age-related cognitive decline and dementia.

The longevity journey for women in midlife isn’t about abandoning the field’s tools. It’s about finally receiving care that takes your biology seriously — that treats the hormonal context of your life not as a complicating variable but as the essential starting point. You deserve that. And the work of building it, including the relational and psychological foundations beneath your physical health, is worth the investment. Take the free quiz if you want to start understanding what’s shaping your patterns beneath the surface, or subscribe to the Strong & Stable newsletter for the ongoing conversation about what ambitious women in midlife actually need to know.

In my work, the women who navigate this phase most effectively are those who refuse to keep applying protocols designed for someone else, who demand care that meets them where they actually are, and who build support systems sophisticated enough to match the complexity of their lives. That’s not a niche concern. That’s the entire conversation about women’s longevity — finally, starting to happen.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Q: Is longevity medicine actually worth it for women in perimenopause?

A: It can be — but only when it’s approached through a female-specific, hormone-literate lens. Generic longevity protocols applied without accounting for your hormonal reality often miss the mark. When properly tailored, longevity medicine can significantly enhance your healthspan during midlife. The key is finding practitioners who understand how perimenopause shapes the efficacy of every other intervention.

Q: Does HRT extend lifespan for women?

A: The research suggests HRT may offer long-term health benefits beyond symptom management — including potential reduction in cardiovascular disease risk and neurodegenerative conditions when initiated appropriately, during the “window of opportunity” in early perimenopause or menopause. This is a complex, individualized decision. The type of HRT, timing of initiation, and your personal health history all matter. A menopause-literate physician who stays current on the evidence is essential for making this decision well.

Q: Is Zone 2 training still a good idea for perimenopausal women?

A: Zone 2 cardio is valuable for metabolic and cardiovascular health, and women benefit from it. But during perimenopause, some women find sustained moderate-intensity exercise more depleting than it used to be, particularly without adequate recovery. Stacy Sims, PhD, recommends adjusting training intensity and duration to align with hormonal phase. Listen to your body, protect recovery, and don’t treat a stalled protocol as a personal failure — treat it as data that your approach needs adaptation.

Q: Is intermittent fasting safe during perimenopause?

A: For some women, it works well. For others — particularly during perimenopause — it can exacerbate hormonal dysregulation, worsen sleep disruption, and increase anxiety. Extended fasting can place additional stress on an already burdened adrenal system. If you’re experiencing worsening symptoms while fasting, that’s worth taking seriously. A more gentle approach, like time-restricted eating within a reasonable window, tends to work better for hormonally sensitive women during this phase.

Q: What does Peter Attia’s approach miss for women?

A: Peter Attia’s work is genuinely valuable and rigorous. But it tends to be generalized in ways that don’t adequately account for the specific hormonal context of women in perimenopause. His principles around strength, sleep, and metabolic health are sound — they simply need to be applied through a female-specific, hormone-aware lens to produce optimal outcomes for women. The missing piece is almost always the hormonal context.

Q: How should I prioritize my longevity budget as a perimenopausal woman?

A: Start with the foundational elements: a menopause-literate physician, adequate sleep, strength training calibrated to your hormonal phase, and whole-food nutrition that supports metabolic health. If budget allows, consider HRT evaluation, targeted supplementation based on actual testing, and therapeutic support — especially if you’re navigating the emotional and identity dimensions of this transition. Invest in personalized guidance over generic biohacks. The highest-leverage investment is care that actually accounts for your biology.

Related Reading

  1. Brinton, Roberta Diaz. “Investigative models for determining hormone therapy-induced outcomes in brain: evidence in support of a healthy cell bias of estrogen action.” Annals of the New York Academy of Sciences, vol. 1052, no. 1, 2005, pp. 13–21.
  2. Mosconi, Lisa. The Menopause Brain: The New Science Empowering Women to Navigate Midlife with Knowledge and Confidence. Avery, 2024.
  3. Criado Perez, Caroline. Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men. Abrams Press, 2019.
  4. Haver, Mary Claire. The New Menopause: Navigating Your Path Through Hormones, Hot Flashes, Body Changes, and Brain Fog. Rodale Books, 2024.
  5. van der Kolk, Bessel A. The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Viking, 2014.
  6. Sims, Stacy T. Next Level: Your Guide to Kicking Ass, Feeling Great, and Crushing Goals Through Menopause and Beyond. Rodale Books, 2022.
  7. Thurston, Rebecca C., et al. “Vasomotor symptoms and trauma exposure in midlife women.” Menopause, vol. 22, no. 1, 2015, pp. 36–43.
  8. Carr, M. C. “The metabolic syndrome and insulin resistance in women.” Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, vol. 88, no. 6, 2003, pp. 2404–2411.

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