A focused course in development
You know how to open the bank app. That isn’t the part that feels difficult.
The balance is a number. The shame, the rush to close the screen, the feeling that you should already have figured this out: those are something else. This course considers the family messages and relationship experiences that can make money feel like a question about safety, loyalty or whether you’re worth taking care of.
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Who this is for
Open a situation to see where the curriculum explores it. These aren’t diagnostic questions, and you don’t need a particular job, income or level of outward functioning to consider the course.
The body section considers what happens before you close the screen or set the envelope aside. Noticing that response is different from solving the financial problem itself.
Explore this part of the course ↗The pattern section examines what asking for payment can bring up about worth, approval, and obligation. The course doesn't decide what rate you should charge.
Explore this part of the course ↗The opening material looks at the difference between changed circumstances and a sense of safety that hasn't caught up. Both the actual numbers and the fear deserve attention.
Explore this part of the course ↗The pattern section considers money alongside care, loyalty, and family roles. A request can matter to someone you love and still be more than you can take on.
Explore this part of the course ↗The planned practices give you space to notice what a purchase is doing in a particular moment. This is reflection, not a budget or a judgment about every purchase.
Explore this part of the course ↗The relationship material asks what else has entered a conversation about a number. You may need to address the practical decision and the meaning each person attaches to it.
Explore this part of the course ↗Money Without the Mayhem
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Explore the planned course
Read about each part of the curriculum. Nothing you open here is recorded as a personal assessment or used to score your history.
Planned module 1 · The Mirror
Explore early money memories and inherited messages about worth, safety and belonging. These messages may continue to matter even when your present circumstances are different.
Join the waitlistPlanned module 2 · The Body
Consider the tension, avoidance or urgency that can accompany financial information and decisions. Look at undercharging, over-giving and the difficulty of asking for what you need.
Join the waitlistPlanned module 3 · The Pattern
Explore recurring roles around spending, saving, earning and caring for others financially. Consider how those roles appear with partners, family and at work without treating them as fixed identities.
Join the waitlistPlanned module 4 · The Interrupt
Consider the Money Memory Map and Financial Body Scan as reflection practices. The focus is noticing a response and creating room for a considered action, not receiving financial or investment advice.
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What we’re working toward
The numbers deserve attention. So does what happens inside you when you look at them.
These are learning goals and practices to explore, not guaranteed outcomes or a recovery timeline.
Inside the written material
The planned written material gives you room to put an idea into the terms of your own life. Finished sample pages will be available once this course's workbook is ready.
01 · Planned written material
A planned reflection on early experiences and inherited messages.
02 · Planned written material
Proposed prompts for noticing your responses around financial information.
03 · Planned written material
Written material for considering a manageable next action and appropriate support.
Annie Wright, the course creator, has been featured in
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The person behind the curriculum
I’m a licensed psychotherapist and an EMDRIA-certified EMDR therapist with more than 15,000 clinical hours. I’m also someone with a relational trauma history of my own. Those are different kinds of knowledge. Both inform how I teach.
I once bought a one-way ticket to the Esalen Institute in Big Sur with one suitcase and a few thousand dollars in savings. One month became two, then nearly four years of working, apprenticing and studying. I had to face the past in order to have a future.
Later, I founded, scaled and sold a multimillion-dollar, multi-state mental health company. Achievement was something I loved, and it had also been armor against shame and a path out of poverty. Understanding that distinction became another layer of my recovery.
I bring this clinical perspective into courses because an idea can be easier to work with when you can pause, return to it, and see how it connects with the next one. Your history is particular to you. The teaching gives you a structure for considering it, not a prescribed version of the life you should build.
Licensed in 15 U.S. jurisdictions, including Colorado for telehealth only, and registered to provide telehealth in Florida under Fla. Stat. 456.47.
Read more of my story ↗On the writing & professional resources
Readers tell me about the paragraph they sent to a friend, or the explanation they came back to when a familiar situation happened again. Colleagues tell me how they use the writing in their own work. Here are some of those notes.
Reader · Excerpt
“You're a gifted writer, you offer empathy and clear headed explanations for complicated issues. You address real life issues in a user friendly/supportive way.”
Annie, with your writing, you are making an important contribution to a wider audience than could ever meet with you one on one. You're a gifted writer, you offer empathy and clear headed explanations for complicated issues. You address real life issues in a user friendly/supportive way. It's beautiful and a gift. AND, you back up what you say with solid research.
Fellow therapist · On Annie’s writing · Excerpt
“As a therapist myself, Annie's work is my go-to resource for my clients with complex relational trauma.”
As a therapist myself, Annie's work is my go-to resource for my clients with complex relational trauma. I can't count the number of times I have assigned a client the homework of, 'read Annie Wright's blog.' Without fail, my clients report back feeling seen, understood, and less alone.
Reader · Excerpt
“I'm so grateful to have found your writing. I see so much of myself in your posts (hello, hiding in a packed calendar!).”
I'm so grateful to have found your writing. I see so much of myself in your posts (hello, hiding in a packed calendar!). And what I enjoy about your writing is your skill at delving deep behind the whys of behavior, and also providing practical applications folks can try to walk a new path. Thank you for opening your wisdom to the world!
Fellow therapist · On Annie’s resources
“For years, I struggled to find resources that spoke specifically to family estrangement. Annie's work is the resource I wish I'd had years ago.”
Reader
“Your articles are always informative, wise, balanced, real and always resonate. I appreciate you very much.”
Reader
“Whenever I think the blog isn't going to apply to me, it always hits the nail on the head. Thank you, Annie!”
Newsletter reader
“This email was amazing. You gave the parts application outside of 'x does this because of y' textbook examples. Thanks so much for writing it.”
Article reader
“Annie, I'm so grateful for this article and space. It matters so much to have these important conversations and break the silence around trauma.”
Article reader
“Dear Annie, so pleased to get a deeper understanding of the complexity of relationship after reading this article. A degree of ease has since settled into my crowded thoughts with what I am going through at the moment.”
Reader · On Annie’s writing · Excerpt
“I've continued to follow Annie's work as she offers realistic suggestions about how to heal through relationship.”
Annie first captured my attention in her work about complex relational trauma. From this work, I began to realize the many maladaptive thoughts and beliefs I've been carrying throughout my life and the problems they were causing me. I've continued to follow Annie's work as she offers realistic suggestions about how to heal through relationship.
Reader · On Annie’s writing
“Annie's work has provided me with an understanding of my place within my birth family, guidance on being true to myself and caring for myself, and tools for thoughtfully and compassionately dealing with my family before and after my father's illness and death.”
Fellow therapist · On Annie’s writing
“As a therapist and a human, I work and live in all of this. Thank you for your beautiful, eloquent words of truth.”
Reader · On posts and newsletters
“Thank you for this! There are times when I look at what I have and know it's more than I ever imagined and I ask myself 'Why am I not blissfully happy, why isn't it enough?' Luckily we have your posts and newsletters. Thank you!”
Reader · On Annie’s writing
“I think it's a tremendously powerful analysis. I know that it has triggered realisations in myself and with others with whom I have mentioned this.”
Reader · On Annie’s posts
“Thank you for another incredibly beautiful post, Annie. It resonated so deeply with me that I looked back in a folder where I keep 'doodles,' things I have drawn or written at times that I feel something rising up that needs to be acknowledged.”
Money Without the Mayhem
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Course details
The balance is a number. The shame, the rush to close the screen, the feeling that you should already have figured this out: those are something else. This course considers the family messages and relationship experiences that can make money feel like a question about safety, loyalty or whether you’re worth taking care of.
When enrollment opens
You don’t have to decide today whether this is your next step. Joining the waitlist asks me to let you know when the course is available.
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Payment and course terms ↓Money Without the Mayhem
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Before you decide
You should be able to understand what you’re considering without having to guess what the title means or what comes next.
No. This is psychological and relational education about money. It doesn’t provide a budget, investment recommendation, tax strategy or debt-management plan. Those questions belong with appropriately qualified professionals.
No. Family messages about money can involve scarcity, secrecy, pressure, control or expectations at different income levels. The point is to consider your history, not assume that one financial background explains every pattern.
Financial control can be part of abuse, and a self-paced course can’t assess what is safe in your situation. Seek individualized support from an appropriate local service or professional rather than relying on a reflection exercise to resolve coercion.
This course is in development, and enrollment isn’t open. Join the waitlist to hear when it’s available and read the finished course details before you decide. No release date is promised here.
The outline describes the planned subjects and written material. I'll share the final lessons, resources, access terms and price before enrollment opens.
No. The course is a separate educational offer. You don’t need to be in my practice, have a particular career or meet an income threshold to consider the material. A course doesn’t include an individual assessment or treatment relationship.
The material may give you questions to discuss with your therapist. Whether it fits your circumstances and the timing of your care is something to consider together. A course isn’t a reason to stop support that’s helping.
The planned format is self-paced. No required live group or community access is being promised on this page. You can read the outline and explore the cards without sharing your history or receiving a score.
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The next step
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For when enrollment opens
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