Relational trauma—often caused by emotionally unavailable, narcissistic, or personality-disordered parents—can leave lasting impacts on your sense of self and how you navigate relationships. It shapes how you cope, connect, and strive, often creating “cracks” in your psychological foundation.
For ambitious women, these cracks frequently show up as:
– Perfectionism and overachievement that mask deeper insecurities.
– Struggles with self-worth and self-trust, despite outward success.
– Anxiety, burnout, or difficulty slowing down and being present.
– Challenges maintaining boundaries or building healthy relationships.
Even as you achieve great things professionally, these underlying patterns can hold you back, leaving you feeling stuck, disconnected, or like the foundation of your life isn’t as solid as it could be.
As a relational trauma recovery specialist, I combine personal insight and professional expertise to guide ambitious women like you toward meaningful, lasting change. In our therapy work, we will:
– Heal your early relational wounds: Address the root causes of anxiety, perfectionism, and relational struggles.
– Develop healthier coping mechanisms: Shift away from achievement as a survival strategy to emotional balance and self-compassion.
– Build genuine self-trust: Strengthen your sense of worth and confidence, independent of external success.
– Navigate relationships effectively: Establish boundaries and cultivate deeper, healthier connections
– Create alignment: Build a life that feels balanced, fulfilling, and authentically aligned with who you are.
The goal isn’t to dismantle the success you’ve built—it’s to create a stronger foundation so everything you’ve achieved can be sustained and truly enjoyed.
I’ll help you understand how your early experiences shaped your current patterns, from your coping mechanisms to your relationship dynamics. With this knowledge, we’ll reframe your story and create actionable pathways to healing.
From emotional regulation to authentic self-expression, we’ll focus on developing skills you may have missed in your early relational experiences. These tools will support you in every aspect of your personal and professional life.
We’ll work at a pace that respects your emotional readiness and professional demands, processing relational trauma both cognitively and somatically. This isn’t just about understanding your past—it’s about freeing yourself from patterns that no longer serve you.
Therapy with me isn’t a blank-slate approach. I provide an attuned, authentic therapeutic relationship that models healthy connection while maintaining professional boundaries. This creates a safe space for growth and healing.
You’re successful professionally but feel stuck, anxious, or like an impostor.
Your relationships don’t match the level of success in other areas of your life.
You rely on work, achievement, or other behaviors (e.g., food, shopping, exercise) to cope with emotional pain.
You struggle with perfectionism, people-pleasing, or boundary-setting.
You often feel emotionally exhausted or overwhelmed, even when everything in your life seems “fine” on the surface.
You feel disconnected from yourself despite outward accomplishments.
You came from a family with narcissistic, emotionally unavailable, or personality-disordered parents.
You’re ready to stop “patching cracks” and build a foundation that truly supports your life.
If you’re ready to explore working together, reach out to my office, and a member of my team will connect with you. Whether through therapy or my online course, I’m here to help you create a life built on a foundation that is as strong as you are.
And no matter what, whether you choose to work with me as your therapist or not, I want to leave you with these words which have guided my work, buoyed my soul, and given me hope for my own relational trauma recovery journey since I first read them:
“She could never go back and make some of the details pretty. All she could do was move forward and make the whole beautiful.”
TERRI ST. CLOUD
Wherever you are in the world as you read these words right now, I wish you well.
Warmly,