Sudden Wealth Syndrome After a Founder Exit: What Nobody Tells You About the Psychological Aftermath
LAST UPDATED: JULY 2026
The wire transfer clears, and instead of the euphoria you expected, you feel a spreading blankness you can’t name. Sudden Wealth Syndrome after a founder exit is a real, clinically documented pattern, not ingratitude and not weakness. This article explains the neurobiology, the relational disruptions, and what healing actually looks like for women founders working through the psychological aftermath of a successful exit.
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- The Wire Clears and Nothing Arrives
- What Is Sudden Wealth Syndrome?
- What Happens to the Brain After the Build Ends?
- How Does Sudden Wealth Syndrome Show Up in Women Founders?
- Why Do Relationships Change After a Big Exit?
- Both/And: The Exit Was a Success AND It Was a Loss
- The Systemic Lens: Why Does a World That Worships the Exit Abandon the Exited?
- What Does Healing Actually Look Like After Sudden Wealth?
- Who I Am and Why I Know This
- Frequently Asked Questions
Sudden Wealth Syndrome (SWS) is a clinically recognized cluster of psychological responses to rapid acquisition of significant wealth, marked by disorientation, identity disruption, and a spreading blankness rather than the euphoria most people expect. For founders whose identity organized around the company mission, an exit doesn’t deliver arrival. It delivers the loss of the self that had organized around that mission. In my work with driven women after a founder exit, the psychological work rarely begins with celebration. It begins with the grief nobody warned them was coming.
In short: Sudden Wealth Syndrome after a founder exit produces identity disorientation and blankness instead of euphoria, because the exit dissolves the mission-built self that gave the founder’s life its organizing structure.
The Wire Clears and Nothing Arrives
Caroline is 52. She sold her Series-C health tech company fourteen months ago, at a number that still sounds surreal when she says it out loud. The deal closed on a Thursday afternoon in late October. She watched the wire confirmation land on her phone while sitting in her car in the parking lot of the acquirer’s headquarters, rain streaking the windshield, and she waited to feel something.
What arrived wasn’t relief. It wasn’t joy. It wasn’t the exhale of eleven years of work finally resolved.
It was a quiet, spreading blankness, as if the frequency she’d been tuned to for over a decade had gone off air.
Caroline did everything the startup world tells a founder to do. She took three months off. She traveled to Portugal with her husband. She started sleeping eight hours a night for the first time since her Series A. None of it touched the blankness. She didn’t know what to call it, and she was afraid to name it out loud to her co-founders, her investors, her own family, worried they’d hear ingratitude where there was actually something else entirely.
In my work with founders, I’ve seen this presentation again and again, across different exit sizes, different industries, different circumstances. The specifics vary. The underlying psychological structure doesn’t: a woman who built her identity and her nervous system around a specific organizing mission, and who now finds herself in unfamiliar territory that the venture world has no real framework for, and that most therapists aren’t equipped to address because they’ve never worked with sudden wealth at scale.
What Caroline is experiencing has a name. And it isn’t ingratitude.
What Is Sudden Wealth Syndrome?
Sudden Wealth Syndrome isn’t a formal DSM diagnosis. It’s a clinically documented pattern of psychological responses to rapid, dramatic wealth acquisition, first named in the wealth psychology literature by Stephen Goldbart, PhD, psychologist and co-founder of the Money, Meaning and Choices Institute, and Joan DiFuria, psychotherapist and his co-founder at the same institute. James Grubman, PhD, psychologist and leading researcher in the psychology of wealth transitions, later expanded the framework in a way I return to constantly in my own clinical work.
Grubman describes the experience with a frame I find clinically precise. He calls it “the immigrant experience.” You’ve suddenly arrived in a world you weren’t socialized for. The norms are unfamiliar. The relational dynamics have shifted underneath you. The internal story you’ve told yourself about who you are, organized around building, striving, solving, no longer fits the reality you’ve landed in.
The symptoms are recognizable once you know what you’re looking at. A pervasive sense of unreality, the “did this actually happen” feeling. Difficulty trusting relationships, the low hum of wondering who wants to know you now, and why. Guilt about the gap between your new circumstances and those of people close to you. Social withdrawal. And a specific paralysis around decision-making, the paradox of choice at massive scale, once the financial constraints that used to organize your options have simply been removed.
These aren’t signs of weakness or poor character. They’re predictable responses to a specific kind of rapid identity disruption.
A clinically recognized cluster of psychological responses to rapid, unexpected acquisition of significant wealth, characterized by disorientation, identity disruption, relational uncertainty, difficulty trusting relationships, and an inability to experience the expected positive affect. Named and described by Stephen Goldbart, PhD, and Joan DiFuria of the Money, Meaning and Choices Institute, and expanded by James Grubman, PhD, psychologist and author of Strangers in Paradise: How Families Adapt to Wealth Across Generations. Not a formal DSM diagnosis.
In plain terms: Your brain was calibrated for one reality, and the wire transfer changed reality faster than the brain can update. The money arrived. The self it was supposed to belong to is still catching up.
What Happens to the Brain After the Build Ends?
Understanding why the post-exit blankness is neurologically predictable requires a look at what building a startup does to the nervous system, and what happens when that organizing structure is suddenly removed.
The nervous system of a startup founder, over years of building, organizes itself around chronic high-stakes stress: funding risk, team crises, customer churn, competitive threats. The stress response system becomes highly calibrated to threat detection and rapid mobilization. This isn’t pathological. It’s functional. The hypervigilance, the constant scanning for problems, the inability to fully switch off. These are survival strategies that serve the build phase well.
Stephen Porges, PhD, neuroscientist and distinguished university scientist at Indiana University, whose Polyvagal Theory maps the hierarchical responses of the autonomic nervous system, gives me a framework I lean on constantly when I try to explain what happens at exit. The nervous system that has learned to organize itself around constant threat suddenly finds itself without a clear object for its vigilance. Some founders slide from sympathetic activation into dorsal vagal shutdown, a flat, anhedonic state where the system, no longer mobilized for threat, collapses into stillness. Others experience the inverse: sympathetic activation with no object, an anxiety still searching for a threat that no longer exists (Porges, 2025).
Both the blankness and the free-floating anxiety are nervous system responses to the removal of a chronic organizing stressor. Not character flaws. Predictable physiological outcomes of a specific transition.
Daniel Siegel, MD, clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine and founding co-director of the Mindsight Institute, offers a complementary framework through his concept of narrative identity. The self, Siegel argues, is constructed in part through the stories we tell ourselves about who we are and what we’re doing. For many founders, that narrative has one dominant organizing theme: I’m building something. The team, the mission, the daily urgency, the role clarity. All of it provides the psychological coherence that narrative identity requires (Reisz, Duschinsky, and Siegel, 2018).
When the company sells, that narrative ends abruptly, even on the best possible terms. The integrative function of the brain, the hippocampal and prefrontal systems that maintain a coherent self-narrative, can become temporarily destabilized. The result is what I’ve come to think of as a post-achievement identity vacuum: a purposelessness that resembles depression but is more precisely a narrative void. The self hasn’t been damaged. It’s been emptied of its primary organizing content.
A period following the completion of a major organizing goal in which the structures that provided psychological coherence, mission, urgency, team identity, role clarity, are no longer present, leaving the person in a state of purposelessness that can resemble depression but is more precisely a narrative void. Related to Daniel Siegel, MD’s model of narrative identity and its role in psychological integration, as described in The Developing Mind.
In plain terms: Your company wasn’t just what you did. It was who you were. When it ends, even on the best possible terms, a part of you ends with it. That isn’t failure. That’s grief.
How Does Sudden Wealth Syndrome Show Up in Women Founders?
For women founders specifically, the post-exit psychological reality carries additional layers worth naming directly.
The societal expectations placed on driven women often mean their identity is more tightly fused with their professional role than they’ve consciously recognized. The company wasn’t only a company. It was proof: proof of competence, of worth, of a right to take up space. When the company is gone, that proof goes with it, even temporarily. The question “who am I now?” carries a sharper edge for women founders than the startup world typically acknowledges.
There’s also the grief that no one gives permission to feel. The startup world celebrates exits. The founder who grieves hers, who cries at unpredictable moments, who can’t explain why she feels worse now than she did during the hardest funding round, is surrounded by a social narrative insisting she should be celebrating. She often ends up calling what’s happening “adjustment,” because grief isn’t a culturally sanctioned response to success.
Ruth is 48. She exited her fintech startup eighteen months ago. She’s done everything right since: taken time off, traveled, built an advisory portfolio, started sleeping again. And still she cries unexpectedly, in grocery stores, at her daughter’s school pickup line, watching a television show about people stressed out over their jobs. She’s embarrassed by the grief. She hasn’t told anyone close to her how bad it’s actually been, because she doesn’t have a framework for it that doesn’t sound like ingratitude.
What Ruth is experiencing is grief. Specific, real, and clinically appropriate. She built something she loved in the particular way you love something you created with your own hands and decisions. It’s gone now. The grief makes complete sense. The absence of a cultural framework for it doesn’t make the grief wrong.
What I tell clients like Ruth in the first session: the grief isn’t a problem to solve. It’s a response to a real loss that deserves to be named, witnessed, and metabolized. That’s what depth therapy is for. Not to eliminate the grief, but to help you move through it fully enough that it stops living in your body as something unnamed and unmoved.
Why Do Relationships Change After a Big Exit?
Sudden wealth changes relationships in ways rarely discussed honestly before an exit, and that can be deeply disorienting afterward.
The founder who now has substantially more wealth than her co-founders, her early employees, her longtime friends, or her family lives through a shift in relational dynamics that’s invisible in its early stages. Long-term friends begin asking for advice. Then introductions. Then investment. Subtly at first, then less subtly. Family members who were supportive during the build now show a different kind of interest in her time and attention. People who’ve known her for decades start relating to her through the lens of what she might provide.
This activates the attachment system’s deepest question: am I loved for myself, or for what I provide? John Bowlby, MD, the psychiatrist who founded attachment theory, described this as the nervous system’s lifelong search for a secure base, someone whose care doesn’t depend on what you produce for them. For founders who already came into the work with anxious attachment, or with histories of conditional relational worth, which is a common profile among driven women, this relational uncertainty can be genuinely destabilizing. Bowlby’s framework is the reason I ask new clients, almost as a diagnostic question, whether their childhood love felt conditional on performance.
Pauline Boss, PhD, emerita professor at the University of Minnesota and author of Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief, offers a framework I find myself returning to often here. Boss’s concept of ambiguous loss, grief that has no clear form because the loss hasn’t been definitively named, applies almost precisely to the relational shifts sudden wealth creates. The friendships that existed before the exit are still, nominally, intact. Underneath, they may be profoundly altered in ways that can’t be fully grieved because they haven’t been clearly acknowledged. That ambiguity, unchanged on the surface, possibly different underneath, creates a specific kind of unresolved emotional distress.
“Addiction begins when a woman loses her handmade and meaningful life. The one built from genuine inclination rather than obligation.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, PhD, Jungian analyst and author, Women Who Run With the Wolves
I find that quote relevant for founders because the departure from the built thing, the handmade, meaningful creation of a company, leaves a specific kind of void. When driven women fill that void with substitute achievement strategies before they’ve metabolized the loss, immediately starting the next company, taking on an overscheduled advisory portfolio, compulsive busyness, the unresolved grief tends to show up somewhere else. In the body. In relationships. In a persistent flatness that no new project touches.
Ruth spent the first year post-exit cycling through advisory roles that never quite felt real. “I kept doing things,” she told me one Tuesday, turning her wedding ring around her finger the way she does when she’s working something out, “but none of it felt like it counted.” In therapy, what emerged wasn’t that she’d made the wrong choices. It was that she’d been trying to escape the grief of her exit rather than move through it, and the escape attempts, while functional on the surface, were quietly preventing the deeper integration her nervous system needed.
Here’s what I’ve come to believe after fifteen years of this specific work. Not always, and not for every founder, but often enough that I now ask about it directly in the first session: the founders who struggle most with post-exit relational disruption are usually the ones who were most conflict-avoidant during the build. The startup gave them a legitimate reason not to look too closely at who actually loved them versus who needed something from them. The exit removes that cover.
If you’re in this place, the executive coaching I offer is specifically designed for the post-exit transition, not as a replacement for grief work, but as a complement to it once the initial loss has been adequately witnessed.
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Both/And: The Exit Was a Success AND It Was a Loss
This is the frame I come back to, again and again, with founder clients in the aftermath of a successful exit: success and loss are not mutually exclusive.
Caroline closed her acquisition on a Thursday, and fourteen months later she’s sitting in her home office, a room she had custom-built during the build phase, thinking she’d finally have time to use it, with a to-do list on her desk that has held the same three items for six weeks. She describes the wealth as feeling like wearing someone else’s clothes. The number in her account doesn’t feel real. Her friends assume she’s fine, finally. Her previous therapist kept reflecting back how much she’d accomplished. What she actually needed someone to say was that the grief is real, the disorientation is neurologically predictable, and feeling empty despite everything she’s built isn’t ingratitude. It’s the cost of having built her entire identity inside the company.
You can have executed an extraordinary exit by every external metric: the number, the terms, the team outcomes, the legacy you built. AND you can be legitimately grieving the loss of the company, the team, the daily mission, the role, and the specific identity that organized eleven or fifteen or twenty years of your life. Both things are simultaneously true. The narrative that success should feel like only joy, that grief after an exit signals ingratitude or a failure of perspective, is culturally pervasive and clinically wrong.
The grief is appropriate. The company was real. What you built was real. What you lost is real.
Ruth spent the first six months post-exit feeling like a fraud at every dinner party, everyone celebrating something she wasn’t sure she’d lost or won. She called it “the survivor’s guilt of your own success.” Sitting across from me in a January session, snow coming down hard against the office window, she said the thing out loud for the first time: she had loved her company in the specific, particular way you love something you built with your hands and your decisions and your relationships. And it was gone.
When I named that directly, that the grief was appropriate, that it didn’t require justification or apology, Ruth cried in a way she hadn’t since the close. “I thought I wasn’t allowed to be sad about this,” she said. The both/and frame gave her permission to hold both the success and the grief without collapsing one to justify the other.
Both/and applies to what comes next, too. You can honor the significance of what you built. Take the time to actually grieve the ending. AND eventually build again, or not build again, or build something entirely different. You don’t have to pretend the ending didn’t cost you something in order to move forward. You can move forward precisely because you’ve let yourself fully feel what the ending was.
The Systemic Lens: Why Does a World That Worships the Exit Abandon the Exited?
What Caroline and Ruth are each living through is not a personal failing. It’s a pattern, and the pattern has a structural origin inside the startup world itself.
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The startup world is structurally organized around two events: the build phase and the exit event. Before the close, there’s infrastructure everywhere. Investors with check-writing capacity. Accelerators. Founder communities. Executive coaches oriented toward growth and exit strategy. A media apparatus that celebrates founder stories in the making.
After the close, that infrastructure largely disappears. Venture funds congratulate you and redirect their attention to the next fund. Accelerators are organized around companies still building, not around post-exit individuals. The founder communities you belonged to during the build are oriented toward people who are currently building. You’ve aged out of the structure that held you, and the startup world has no formal category for what you are now.
Women carry an additional layer of systemic expectation on top of this. The post-exit woman founder is expected to pivot rapidly into the investor-angel-advisor identity, as though the emotional and psychological reality of a major transition has a same-day turnaround. The woman still processing the grief of her exit at month six is treated, subtly, as someone who doesn’t understand how lucky she is. The mechanism is specific: the industry’s incentive structure rewards visible momentum, not visible integration, so it has no language for a founder who needs to slow down in order to actually metabolize what happened to her.
You’re not failing to be grateful enough. You’re moving through a psychologically complex transition inside a system that was never built to hold you once the deal closed. That’s not a personal failing. That’s structural impossibility.
This systemic message is not just unhelpful. It actively interferes with the psychological work that makes the next chapter possible. Founders who skip the metabolization phase, who rush from exit to the next thing without letting the grief, the identity disruption, and the relational recalibration get processed, often find themselves re-enacting the same dynamics in new contexts, unable to explain why the next thing doesn’t feel like enough either.
The psychological support infrastructure for post-exit founders essentially doesn’t exist as a formal category in the startup world. There are no standard frameworks, no organized communities, no commonly available clinical resources calibrated specifically for this transition. Therapists who haven’t worked with sudden wealth at scale often pathologize the founder’s distress as ordinary depression and miss the specific identity and relational dynamics actually at play.
Naming this clearly matters, because the isolation is part of what makes the post-exit experience so hard. You’re moving through a psychologically complex transition with no map, no community, and a cultural narrative that tells you you’re not allowed to find it difficult. Of course it feels disorienting. You’re solving an equation the startup world never built support for.
What Does Healing Actually Look Like After Sudden Wealth?
The first step is permission. Permission to name the grief as real, the disorientation as neurologically predictable, and the relational uncertainty as a legitimate response to changed circumstances, not a problem to solve on a timeline, but a territory to move through.
Depth therapy is often the right container for this first phase. The work involves metabolizing the loss of the company and the identity it held, letting the grief be witnessed without rushing it toward resolution, and slowly rebuilding a self-narrative that doesn’t require a specific mission in order to feel coherent. This isn’t quick work. It typically takes longer than founders expect and shorter than they fear.
What depth therapy can do for a post-exit founder: help her grieve what was actually lost, not just the company, but the specific version of herself that existed inside it. Identify the underlying attachment patterns and conditional-worth beliefs the founder identity was built on top of. Begin constructing a self that’s internally grounded rather than role-dependent. The goal isn’t to become someone who no longer cares about building. It’s to become someone who can choose: to build or not, to engage or rest, to be valuable in different ways, without the choice feeling existentially threatening.
Once the initial grief has softened and the identity stabilization work has created more solid internal ground, trauma-informed coaching can become highly productive. This phase asks different questions. What do you actually want, now that the answer isn’t automatically “build the next company”? What does “enough” mean in a context where you don’t have to do anything? Which relationships do you want to keep tending, and which ones have run their course? What does contribution mean when it doesn’t have to generate returns?
Caroline, eighteen months out now, describes it this way: “For the first year, I kept waiting to feel like myself again. It took me a long time to understand that the self I was waiting for wasn’t coming back. I had to build a new one.” She hasn’t decided whether she’ll start another company. Some weeks she thinks she will. Some weeks the question doesn’t interest her at all. She’s stopped needing the answer to arrive on anyone else’s schedule.
If you’re in this territory, post-exit, disoriented, grieving something you can’t fully name yet, I’d invite you to look at working with me directly or explore executive coaching for the later-stage transition work. If you’re not sure where you are in the process, the quiz is a useful first step for identifying the underlying patterns your exit has surfaced. And if you want company in the meantime, the Strong & Stable newsletter reaches thousands of driven women working through exactly this kind of transition every week.
You built something real. You deserve support figuring out what comes next. Not in a rush, not on the industry’s timeline, but at the pace your actual nervous system requires.
Warmly,
Annie.
Who I Am and Why I Know This
I’m Annie Wright, LMFT, and I’ve spent more than 15,000 direct clinical hours working with founders and executives moving through post-exit identity collapse. My own experience as a founder who built, scaled, and successfully exited Evergreen Counseling informs this work directly. I know what it’s like to build something that defines you, and to face the identity work of what comes after. That lived experience shapes how I work with founders, not as an academic understanding, but as something I’ve moved through myself. Tal Ben-Shahar, PhD, positive psychologist and author of Happier, documents how the arrival fallacy leaves driven performers vulnerable to post-achievement deflation and emptiness (Ben-Shahar, 2007), and it’s a finding I see confirmed in my office on a near-weekly basis. This article is psychoeducational, drawn from research and from patterns I see repeatedly in session. It isn’t a substitute for individualized clinical care.
Q: Is sudden wealth syndrome real, or am I just being dramatic?
A: It’s real. Clinically documented, neurobiologically grounded, and common enough among founders and high-net-worth individuals that there’s a body of wealth psychology literature dedicated to it. The disorientation, the blankness, the difficulty trusting relationships, the grief. These are predictable responses to a specific kind of rapid identity disruption. You’re not being dramatic. You’re moving through a transition the startup world provides essentially no support for.
Q: Why am I sad when I have everything I worked for?
A: Because success and loss aren’t mutually exclusive. The company was real. What you built was real. The team, the mission, the identity organized around the build, these were real, and they’re gone now. Grief is the appropriate response to a real ending, even when that ending is also a success. The cultural narrative that success should feel like only joy is wrong. Your sadness doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful. It means you loved what you built.
Q: How long does the post-exit disorientation last?
A: It varies enormously depending on the founder, the circumstances of the exit, and whether adequate support is in place. Some founders move through the acute phase within six to twelve months. For others, particularly when the disorientation sits on top of preexisting attachment wounds or conditional-worth patterns, it can take longer. If significant anhedonia, grief, or relational disturbance persists beyond six months, clinical evaluation for depression, which is distinct from but sometimes comorbid with SWS, is warranted.
Q: How do I know which relationships have changed because of the money?
A: Usually gradually, through paying attention to patterns rather than single moments. Watch for subtle shifts: who starts relating to you through the lens of what you could provide rather than who you are, who asks for things they wouldn’t have asked for before, who becomes deferential in ways that weren’t there before. Watch your own internal response too. The attachment system’s signal that something has changed is usually the feeling of being used rather than seen. This is worth working through carefully, ideally with therapeutic support, rather than dismissing it or acting on it impulsively.
Q: Should I hire a therapist or an executive coach after my exit?
A: The sequence matters. If you’re in the acute grief and disorientation phase, if the blankness is prominent, if you’re crying unexpectedly, if you can’t quite name who you are anymore, therapy is the right first step. The depth work of metabolizing the loss and stabilizing identity needs to happen before the forward-looking work of coaching can land. Once you have more solid internal ground, coaching oriented specifically toward the post-exit transition can be highly productive. Both can happen at the same time if the therapist and coach are in communication and working in aligned ways.
Q: What if my family doesn’t understand why I’m struggling?
A: It’s common. The people who love you may genuinely struggle to understand why success feels difficult, particularly if they don’t have a framework for the specific dynamics of founder identity and sudden wealth transitions. Finding support from a clinician who understands these dynamics, and from other founders who’ve moved through post-exit terrain, is often more immediately useful than trying to get understanding from people who haven’t lived it. That doesn’t mean your family relationships don’t matter. It means you may need to build the language for what you’re experiencing elsewhere first.
Q: Can therapy help me figure out what I actually want to do next?
A: Yes, but usually after the grief work has created enough internal space for the question to be asked genuinely. The “what do I want to do next” question, asked too early, often produces answers that are really escape strategies from the grief rather than genuine desires. Once the grief has been adequately metabolized and the identity has stabilized, the question of what comes next opens up differently, with more curiosity and less urgency, and with room for answers that aren’t organized entirely around proving your worth.
Related Reading
- Grubman, J. Strangers in Paradise: How Families Adapt to Wealth Across Generations. FamilyWealth Consulting, 2013.
- Boss, P. Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief. Cambridge: Harvard University Press, 1999.
- Porges, S. W. The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. New York: W. W. Norton, 2011.
- Siegel, D. J. The Developing Mind: How Relationships and the Brain Interact to Shape Who We Are. 2nd ed. New York: Guilford Press, 2012.
- Colonna, J. Reboot: Leadership and the Art of Growing Up. New York: HarperBusiness, 2019.
- Ben-Shahar, T. Happier: Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment. New York: McGraw-Hill, 2007.
If any of this lands close to home and you’re ready for clinical support, you can reach out and let’s connect.
References
Peer-Reviewed Research (Vancouver)
- Porges SW. Polyvagal Theory: Current Status, Clinical Applications, and Future Directions. Clin Neuropsychiatry. 2025;22(3):169-184. doi:10.36131/cnfioritieditore20250301. PMID: 40735382.
- Reisz S, Duschinsky R, Siegel DJ. Ainsworth’s fearful-avoidant attachment and defense: exploring John Bowlby’s unpublished reflections. Attach Hum Dev. 2018;20(2):107-134. doi:10.1080/14616734.2017.1380055. PMID: 28952412.
Books & Cultural Sources (Chicago Author-Date)
- Estés, Clarissa Pinkola. Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype. Ballantine Books, 1992.
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