Choosing not to attend the funeral of an estranged or abusive parent often carries heavy cultural and emotional weight. This decision isn’t about avoidance but can be a vital act of self-protection when attending would cause harm. Grief doesn’t vanish with absence; it transforms, shaped by the loss and the missed rituals. Recognizing that not attending is a valid choice helps dismantle the shame and moral pressure often imposed by family and society. This article offers warm, clinically grounded permission to skip the funeral and guidance on navigating the complex grief and family dynamics that follow.
Last reviewed: June 2026 by Annie Wright, LMFT
- Waiting for Someone to Say It’s Okay
- The Clinical Case for Not Attending
- The Cultural Script That Makes It Feel Like a Moral Failure
- The Grief of Not Attending Is Real Too
- What You Can Do Instead
- Both/And: Not Attending Is Valid AND You Will Still Grieve
- The Systemic Lens: How Funeral Attendance Became a Moral Obligation
- How to Handle the Family’s Reaction to Your Choice
- Frequently Asked Questions
Choosing not to attend the funeral of an estranged or abusive parent is a clinically valid decision that may constitute a necessary act of self-protection rather than avoidance. The grief associated with this choice is real, and it belongs to a category Kenneth Doka, PhD, calls disenfranchised grief: grief that isn’t openly acknowledged or socially supported because the relationship or loss doesn’t fit conventional scripts. Not attending doesn’t make the grief disappear; it transforms it, shaped by the loss and the missed ritual both. In my work with driven women, the hardest part is releasing the cultural pressure that insists proximity to the person who hurt you is proof of your goodness.
In short: Skipping the funeral of an estranged or abusive parent is a clinically valid act of self-protection, and the grief that follows is real even if the culture around you doesn’t recognize it as legitimate.
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With more than 15,000 clinical hours supporting adult survivors of abusive or estranged parental relationships through complicated grief, I’ve seen how the decision not to attend a parent’s funeral often arrives only after years of private reckoning. Kenneth Doka, PhD, professor of gerontology whose research established the framework of disenfranchised grief, provides the most clinically accurate description of what survivors experience when mourning someone whose death brings relief alongside loss (Doka 1989).
Waiting for Someone to Say It’s Okay
Maya’s fingers curl tightly around the phone as her sister’s voice spills through the speaker. “You have to come,” her sister insists, the words sharp with expectation. “What will people think if you don’t?” Maya sits on the cold bathroom floor, back pressed against the tile, phone still pressed to her ear. Her breath catches in her throat, waiting for some kind of permission she’s never been given.
The room is quiet except for the low hum of the call. Outside, life goes on, but inside Maya’s chest tightens with the weight of obligation and unresolved pain. The funeral is hours away, and she’s caught between two impossible choices: attend and risk emotional harm or skip and face judgment from family and community.
This moment, the waiting for someone else to say it’s okay to protect yourself, is more common than it seems. Many women wrestling with the decision of not attending an estranged parent’s funeral find themselves trapped in this limbo. The cultural script often demands attendance as a moral duty, yet that duty can clash painfully with personal safety and emotional wellbeing.
In the silence of her bathroom, Maya feels the pressure of a narrative that says “you owe them this” and “you’ll regret it if you don’t.” But what if the grief she carries isn’t the kind that a funeral can soothe? What if attending means reopening wounds that haven’t healed?
| Common Internal Voices When Considering Funeral Attendance | What They’re Really Saying |
|---|---|
| “What will people think if I don’t go?” | Fear of external judgment and social stigma |
| “I have to be the bigger person.” | Pressure to conform to cultural expectations over personal boundaries |
| “I don’t want to cause a scene.” | Desire to avoid conflict but risking personal harm |
| “I’ll regret it if I don’t say goodbye.” | Internalized beliefs about closure that may not fit your experience |
Waiting for permission to make this choice can feel like waiting for a lifeline. Yet, no one outside your lived experience can grant that permission in full. Trusting your own assessment of safety and emotional readiness is essential. If you find yourself typing and deleting messages late at night, like Nadia did when she finally wrote to her therapist, “my father died and I don’t think I should go to the funeral and I need someone to tell me that’s okay,” know that this feeling is real and valid.
Choosing not to attend doesn’t close the door on grief or healing. It opens a different path, one where you can grieve on your terms, away from cultural scripts that don’t fit your story. For more on navigating grief when the person who hurt you dies, see this article. If you’re wrestling with family boundaries or considering no contact, my guides on going no contact and betrayal trauma offer practical support.
The Clinical Case for Not Attending
Kenneth Doka, PhD, professor of gerontology at The Graduate School of The College of New Rochelle and senior consultant to the Hospice Foundation of America, originated the disenfranchised grief framework: grief that is not openly acknowledged, publicly mourned, or socially supported.
In plain terms: If the person who died also hurt you, other people may not know how to make room for your grief. That does not make your grief less real.
Consider Maya, who’s caught in the middle of family pressure. Her sister insists, “You have to come, what will people think?” Maya sits on her bathroom floor, phone pressed to her ear, waiting for permission she’s never going to get from her family. This scenario highlights the clinical difference between self-protection and avoidance. Self-protection means setting boundaries to preserve your mental health. Avoidance, by contrast, often involves running from unresolved feelings without a plan for processing them.
Not attending an estranged or abusive parent’s funeral becomes a necessary boundary when attending would cause significant psychological harm. For example, exposure to family members who deny past abuse or gaslight your experience can reopen old wounds. The sensory environment, crowded rooms, forced social interactions, and expected displays of grief, can overwhelm someone whose nervous system is already on high alert. Stephen Porges’ Polyvagal Theory reminds us that our bodies detect threat before our minds can rationalize safety. This means that even if you intellectually know you’re safe, your body might react as if you’re in danger.
In the case of Nadia, who types and deletes a message to her therapist at 2 a.m., “My father died and I don’t think I should go to the funeral and I need someone to tell me that’s okay,” we see the internal conflict many face. Her relief upon sending the message illustrates how critical external validation and clinical permission can be. It’s not about denying grief but recognizing the complex feelings tied to the relationship and the event.
Here’s a practical way to assess whether not attending is a self-protective choice rather than avoidance:
| Consideration | Self-Protection | Avoidance |
|---|---|---|
| Relationship History | History of abuse, neglect, or estrangement causing trauma | Unresolved conflict without trauma or safety concerns |
| Emotional Impact of Attendance | Triggers intense distress, retraumatization, or dissociation | Discomfort or sadness but manageable emotions |
| Support System | Limited or no supportive presence at the funeral | Supportive family or friends available to help cope |
| Grief Processing Plan | Engaged in therapy, private rituals, or alternative mourning | No plan to process grief outside of funeral attendance |
Choosing not to attend isn’t a failure to grieve or honor the deceased. It’s a recognition that some funerals are unsafe spaces for those who’ve experienced abuse or estrangement. This is why the clinical framework for grief when the person who hurt you dies emphasizes self-care and boundary-setting as essential parts of healthy mourning.
If you want to explore these feelings further, resources like going no contact and betrayal trauma offer clinical insights into protecting yourself from relational harm. And when you’re ready, professional support through therapy with Annie Wright, LMFT can guide you in navigating grief beyond the funeral rituals.
The Cultural Script That Makes It Feel Like a Moral Failure
Pauline Boss, PhD, professor emerita at the University of Minnesota and originator of ambiguous loss theory, describes losses that remain unclear and resist clean resolution.
In plain terms: You may be grieving the death, the childhood you did not get, the apology that never came, and the relationship that was never safe.
Dennis Klass, PhD, Phyllis Silverman, PhD, and Steven Nickman, PhD, advanced continuing bonds theory, which recognizes that relationships with the dead can change rather than simply end.
In plain terms: You do not have to force yourself to forget, forgive, or move on. You can build a truthful inner relationship to what happened.
Choosing not to attend a funeral often triggers a deep cultural discomfort. Society scripts funeral attendance as a sacred obligation, a final act of respect and love. When Maya sits on her bathroom floor, phone pressed to her ear, hearing her sister insist, “You have to come, what will people think?” she confronts more than family pressure. She faces a powerful, often unspoken moral code that equates attending the funeral with doing “the right thing.”
This cultural script leans heavily on attachment and grief science. Dr. Kenneth Doka, PhD, professor of gerontology at The College of New Rochelle and originator of the disenfranchised grief framework, explains that grief tied to socially complicated losses, like estranged or abusive parents, is often unrecognized or invalidated. When you choose not to attend, you step outside the expected mourning rituals, which can feel like a public moral failure even if it’s a deeply self-protective choice.
Pauline Boss, PhD, professor emerita at the University of Minnesota and founder of ambiguous loss theory, describes how ambiguous loss, loss without closure, creates anxiety and confusion. Skipping the funeral of an estranged or abusive parent can intensify this ambiguity. You miss the ritualized goodbye, and that absence unsettles the cultural narrative about how grief “should” look.
Attachment neurobiology also plays a role. Stephen Porges, PhD, originator of the Polyvagal Theory, highlights how our nervous system detects relational threat before conscious thought kicks in. Even if you intellectually know you’re safe skipping the funeral, your body may brace for social judgment or family conflict. This internal alarm can make the cultural pressure feel like a life-or-death emotional event.
These intersecting forces shape the “you’ll regret it” and “you owe them this” messages many women hear. Nadia, typing and deleting her message to her therapist at 2 a.m., feels the weight of those scripts. “My father died and I don’t think I should go to the funeral,” she writes, seeking permission to break the cultural code. The relief she finds in finally sending that message reflects how heavy these cultural expectations can feel.
Here’s a practical way to think about the cultural pressure:
| Common Cultural Script | Underlying Message | Clinical Translation |
|---|---|---|
| “You’ll regret not going.” | Attending is necessary for closure and emotional health. | Closure rituals help but aren’t the only path to healing; grief is complex and personal. |
| “You owe them this.” | Family loyalty requires attendance regardless of history. | Boundaries and self-protection are valid; loyalty doesn’t mean harm tolerance. |
| “What will people think?” | Community judgment defines your moral character. | Your worth isn’t determined by others’ opinions or social performance. |
It’s also helpful to recognize that cultural scripts are not universal. They vary across communities and families, but the dominant Western narrative often insists on attendance as a non-negotiable duty. This can isolate women who have already endured relational trauma, making them feel alone in their choice.
For those wondering, grief after the death of someone who hurt you is real and valid, even if it looks different from expected mourning. Similarly, deciding whether to attend an estranged parent’s funeral involves balancing cultural pressure against emotional safety and self-care.
When Maya’s sister asks, “What will people think?” she voices a common fear. Here’s a simple script to use when you want to hold your boundary without over-explaining:
- “I’m making the choice that feels safest for me right now.”
- “I’m grieving in my own way.”
- “I appreciate your concern, but this is what I need.”
The Grief of Not Attending Is Real Too
Choosing not to attend the funeral of an estranged or abusive parent doesn’t erase the grief that follows. Maya’s story captures this tension vividly. She sits on her bathroom floor, phone pressed to her ear, hearing her sister insist, “You have to come, what will people think?” On the outside, Maya is a professional woman managing a demanding career, but inside, she wrestles with the ache of a goodbye she won’t have, a ritual she’s opting out of, and the cultural weight pressing down on her decision.
Grief always shows up, even when you skip the funeral. Kenneth Doka, PhD, who developed the concept of disenfranchised grief, reminds us that grief is often hidden or unsupported when it doesn’t fit cultural expectations. For women like Maya and Nadia, who face the question “Is it okay not to go to a parent’s funeral?”, the grief can feel both complicated and invisible.
It’s not just missing a ceremony. It’s mourning the loss of a possible reconciliation, the chance to say goodbye, and the social acknowledgment of loss. Nadia types and deletes a message to her therapist at 2 a.m., “My father died and I don’t think I should go to the funeral and I need someone to tell me that’s okay.” That moment of reaching out is a quiet acknowledgement of her grief and the relief that comes from permission. This grief is real and valid, even if it looks different from the grief others expect.
This kind of grief often carries layers of ambiguity and conflict. Pauline Boss, PhD, calls this ambiguous loss, when the relationship itself was unclear, painful, or fractured. You’re grieving a parent who caused harm, who may have been emotionally absent or abusive, yet the death triggers sorrow, anger, relief, and guilt all at once.
Here’s a simple framework to help you hold this grief without self-judgment:
| Grief Experience | What It Means | How to Support Yourself |
|---|---|---|
| Mourning the goodbye you won’t get | Missing the chance to say farewell or resolve unfinished feelings | Write a letter you don’t send or hold a private ritual |
| Feeling isolated or invisible in your grief | Grief not recognized by family or culture due to estrangement | Seek trauma-informed therapy or connect with supportive communities |
| Experiencing guilt or shame | Internalizing cultural scripts about obligation and “what people think” | Remind yourself that self-protection is valid; use grounding techniques |
If you’re wondering how to grieve when the person who hurt you dies or considering whether to attend the funeral of an estranged parent, know that your feelings are complex but valid. You’re not alone, and you don’t have to navigate this alone. Trauma-informed therapy can help you hold your grief, explore your boundaries, and find healing on your terms. You can learn more about available support at https://anniewright.com/therapy-with-annie/.
What You Can Do Instead
Ritual autonomy is the right to decide how, whether, and with whom you mark a death when public grief rituals do not reflect the truth of the relationship.
In plain terms: You can attend, not attend, hold a private ritual, stay silent, write a letter, or do nothing visible. Your body gets a vote.
Start by considering what you need most in this moment. Do you want solitude? Connection? Physical release? Reflection? Your answer will guide the shape of your personal ritual. For example, Maya sits on her bathroom floor, phone pressed to her ear, waiting for permission she’s never given herself. Instead of waiting, she might light a candle there, write a letter she doesn’t send, or play music that expresses what words can’t. These acts can be quiet affirmations that your grief is valid, even when it feels invisible to others.
Here’s a practical decision framework to help you craft a ritual that fits your needs and boundaries:
| Step | Questions to Ask Yourself | Possible Actions |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Identify Your Emotional Needs | What feelings do I need to express or contain? Do I need to cry, reflect, or feel peaceful? | Write a journal entry, create art, or practice deep breathing. |
| 2. Choose Your Setting | Where do I feel safe to be with these feelings? At home, in nature, or somewhere else? | Light a candle in a private room, take a walk in a favorite park, or sit quietly by a window. |
| 3. Select a Symbolic Action | What gesture or object can represent my goodbye or remembrance? | Write a letter (sent or unsent), plant a seed, release a balloon, or create a memory box. |
| 4. Decide on Witnesses | Do I want to share this moment with someone I trust or be completely alone? | Invite a friend, a therapist, or choose solitude. |
| 5. Plan Timing | When will I hold this ritual? On the day of the funeral, another meaningful date, or when I’m ready? | Schedule a quiet hour, mark it on your calendar, or keep it spontaneous. |
Nadia’s late-night message to her therapist,“my father died and I don’t think I should go to the funeral and I need someone to tell me that’s okay”,illustrates how important it is to have safe spaces to express conflicted feelings. If you’re unsure how to start, consider writing your thoughts down, even if you don’t share them right away. This can help externalize the swirl of emotions and begin the process of meaning-making.
Here are some concrete examples of alternative rituals and memorials you might consider:
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- Writing a Letter Unsent: Express what you wish you could say. This can be a powerful way to voice anger, sorrow, or unresolved feelings without pressure for response.
- Creating a Private Memorial: Arrange photos, objects, or mementos in a special space at home that honors your experience on your terms.
- Scheduling a Therapy Session: Book time with a trauma-informed therapist to process your feelings. This can be especially helpful on the day of the funeral or anniversaries.
- Engaging in Movement or Bodywork: Gentle yoga, walking, or somatic therapy can help release grief that’s held in the body.
- Planting a Tree or Garden: This symbolizes ongoing life and growth, creating a living memorial that reflects your journey.
- “I’m taking care of myself right now, and this is what I need.”
- “I’m honoring my boundaries in the way that feels safest to me.”
- “I’m grieving in my own way, and I appreciate your understanding.”
These responses acknowledge your needs without inviting justification. You don’t owe anyone an explanation beyond what feels manageable.
Choosing not to attend doesn’t mean you’re avoiding grief. It’s a self-protective decision that respects your history and current emotional safety. You can still find ways to mourn that honor your truth. For more on navigating grief after the death of someone who hurt you, see this article. If you’re wrestling with family pressure about attendance, this resource offers strategies for managing those expectations.
If you want support in designing personalized rituals or processing complex grief, consider scheduling a session at therapy with Annie Wright, LMFT. You deserve care that honors your boundaries and your story.
Both/And: Not Attending Is Valid AND You Will Still Grieve
“I felt a Cleaving in my Mind. As if my Brain had split. I tried to match it. Seam by Seam. But could not make them fit.”
Emily Dickinson, poet, “I felt a Cleaving in my Mind”
Choosing not to attend the funeral of someone who hurt you is a valid, self-protective choice, and it doesn’t erase the grief that follows. Nadia’s late-night message to her therapist captures this truth: “My father died and I don’t think I should go to the funeral and I need someone to tell me that’s okay.” That need for permission is real. You can decide not to attend and still face the sorrow, the questions, and the loss that come with death.
| Both/And Truths | What They Mean for You |
|---|---|
| You can choose not to attend the funeral. | This is a legitimate, trauma-informed choice that protects your well-being. |
| You will still experience grief. | Grief is complex and multifaceted, and it doesn’t require public rituals to exist or be valid. |
| Not attending doesn’t mean you don’t care. | Your decision reflects your boundaries, not your feelings or love. |
| You may feel conflicted emotions. | Relief, guilt, sadness, anger, and confusion can all coexist without negating each other. |
Nadia’s relief after sending her message is a step toward owning her grief on her terms. If you’re wondering, “Is it okay not to go to a parent’s funeral?” the answer is yes. You can find support in resources like grief when the person who hurt you dies and attending a funeral of an estranged parent. These guides help you navigate the complex emotions and decisions that come with loss under difficult circumstances.
The Systemic Lens: How Funeral Attendance Became a Moral Obligation
Gender roles play a powerful part here. Women, in particular, face expectations to be the emotional caretakers, the ones who “hold the family together.” Maya’s sister insists she must attend, reminding her of “what people will think.” This taps into a gendered script where women carry the burden of relational labor, even at the expense of their own safety and well-being.
Legal and financial systems also reinforce attendance norms. Death certificates, estate settlements, and inheritance rights often require family presence and cooperation, implicitly pressuring people like Nadia to engage, even when they’d rather not. These systemic demands can make skipping a funeral feel like more than a personal choice; it can feel like a legal or financial risk.
Family systems theory helps explain why non-attendance triggers such intense reactions. Families operate as emotional units with unspoken rules. Choosing not to attend disrupts the expected family narrative, sometimes threatening others’ sense of control or identity. This can lead to blame, guilt-tripping, or exclusion, amplifying the survivor’s isolation.
In cultures that prioritize public mourning, grief becomes a performance. Missing the funeral can feel like failing to grieve “correctly,” even when the relationship was abusive or absent. This disenfranchised grief, described by Kenneth Doka, PhD, leaves many women carrying silent sorrow and unresolved feelings without the usual communal support.
| Systemic Pressure | Impact on Survivors Choosing Not to Attend | Examples |
|---|---|---|
| Cultural Ritual Expectations | Feelings of shame, moral failure, social judgment | Maya’s sister: “You have to come, what will people think?” |
| Gendered Emotional Labor | Women bear disproportionate pressure to attend and mediate family conflict | Women expected to “keep the peace” despite trauma |
| Legal and Financial Entanglements | Pressure to maintain appearances for inheritance or legal matters | Estate settlements requiring family cooperation |
| Family-System Dynamics | Non-attendance threatens family narratives, triggering conflict or exclusion | Blame and guilt-trips for “breaking family” |
This awareness can also guide your decisions about how to communicate your choice. You don’t owe anyone a detailed explanation, especially those who weren’t present for the trauma. Setting boundaries around funeral attendance can protect your healing journey. For practical tools, see my guide on going no contact and the betrayal trauma guide, which offer scripts and frameworks for managing family pressure.
If you’re struggling to navigate these systemic pressures or the grief that follows, consider reaching out for support. You can learn more about trauma-informed therapy options at therapy with Annie or explore coaching and foundational work at Fixing the Foundations™.
How to Handle the Family’s Reaction to Your Choice
| Common Family Script | Possible Response | Why It Works |
|---|---|---|
| “You owe them this.” | “I understand why you feel that way, but I’ve made the choice that’s best for my well-being.” | Affirms your autonomy without escalating conflict. |
| “What will people think if you don’t go?” | “I’m focusing on what feels right for me, not on others’ opinions.” | Shifts focus away from social pressure. |
| “You’ll regret it later.” | “I’m giving myself permission to grieve in my own way, and that’s okay.” | Validates your grief while setting firm boundaries. |
When family responses become overwhelming, turning to trusted allies or professional support can make a significant difference. Scheduling therapy sessions around this time can provide a safe container to process complex feelings and reinforce your boundaries. For example, Nadia types and deletes a message to her therapist at 2 a.m., finally sending, “My father died and I don’t think I should go to the funeral and I need someone to tell me that’s okay.” That relief in having her feelings witnessed is a powerful step toward self-compassion.
Support groups or online communities where others have navigated similar choices can also offer validation and practical advice. They remind you that you’re not alone in this experience, countering the isolation that disenfranchised grief often brings. You might also find it helpful to explore resources like Going No Contact: A Complete Guide or Betrayal Trauma: A Complete Guide for deeper understanding and strategies.
Decompression matters. After family conversations or encounters, give yourself permission to rest, breathe, and reconnect with your inner sense of safety. Use grounding techniques or the Grey Rock Method to minimize emotional reactivity. These tools help you reclaim your nervous system from relational stress and maintain your boundaries over time.
Remember, grief doesn’t follow a prescribed timeline or format. You might find that not attending the funeral means you’ll grieve differently, but it doesn’t mean you’re grieving less authentically. The path you choose is yours to define. If you want to explore how to hold your grief while staying safe, consider professional support through therapy with Annie Wright, LMFT or tailored approaches like Fixing the Foundations for relational trauma.
Q: Is it okay not to go to your estranged parent’s funeral?
A: Yes, it’s absolutely okay. Choosing not to attend an estranged parent’s funeral can be a necessary act of self-protection, especially when past trauma or ongoing emotional harm is involved. Attendance isn’t a mandatory ritual; it’s a personal decision based on your well-being, boundaries, and readiness. Society often pressures us to conform, but honoring your limits is valid and important. Remember, your choice doesn’t erase your grief, it honors your safety.
Q: Will I regret not going to my abusive parent’s funeral?
A: Regret is complex and personal. Some people feel relief afterward, while others wrestle with what-ifs. It’s important to distinguish between regret and societal guilt imposed by cultural expectations. Choosing not to attend can protect you from retraumatization, which often outweighs potential regret. Processing grief outside the funeral setting, through therapy, private rituals, or writing, can help you make peace with your choice over time.
Q: What do I tell people when they ask why I’m not attending the funeral?
A: You don’t owe anyone a detailed explanation. A simple, firm response like “I’m taking care of myself right now” or “I’m choosing a different way to grieve” sets a clear boundary without inviting debate. If pressed, you can say, “I’m not ready to share more, but I appreciate your understanding.” Protecting your emotional safety means refusing to justify your decision to those who weren’t present in your history.
Q: I didn’t go to my parent’s funeral and now I feel guilty. Is this normal?
A: Yes, feeling guilt is a common and understandable response. Cultural and family pressures often frame funeral attendance as a moral obligation, which can trigger feelings of failure or shame when you don’t comply. Recognize that guilt doesn’t mean you made the wrong choice, it often reflects internalized messages about duty and loyalty. Compassionately exploring these feelings in therapy or journaling can help you reframe guilt as part of your grief process.
Q: Can I grieve properly if I don’t attend the funeral?
A: Absolutely. Grief isn’t limited to funeral rituals or public displays. You can create meaningful ways to mourn that honor your experience and boundaries. Private rituals, writing letters, therapy sessions, or symbolic acts provide space for your grief. The key is allowing yourself to feel and process your emotions authentically, without forcing traditional scripts. Grief is personal and valid, your path to healing is yours to define.
Related Reading
- Doka, Kenneth J. Disenfranchised Grief: Recognizing Hidden Sorrow. Lexington, MA: Lexington Books, 1989.
- Boss, Pauline. Ambiguous Loss: Learning to Live with Unresolved Grief. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1999.
- Klass, Dennis, Phyllis R. Silverman, and Steven L. Nickman, eds. Continuing Bonds: New Understandings of Grief. Philadelphia: Taylor & Francis, 1996.
- Shear, M. Katherine. “Complicated Grief.” The New England Journal of Medicine 372, no. 2 (2015): 153, 160.
- Wright, Annie. Betrayal Trauma: The Complete Guide.
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