The Best Therapy for Relational Trauma — A Trauma Therapist’s Guide to What Actually Works

RELATIONAL TRAUMA • April 26, 2026

The Moment You Realize Talking Isn’t Enough

Michelle has her session notes color-coded. She’s a senior partner at a Bay Area litigation firm — the kind of woman who prepares for therapy the way she prepares for depositions: thorough, organized, relentlessly self-aware. She’s been in cognitive-behavioral therapy for two years. She knows her cognitive distortions by name. She can trace her attachment wounds back to her emotionally unavailable father with clinical precision. She keeps a boundary journal.

And yet. Every time her husband’s voice drops into that particular register — the one that sounds vaguely like her father’s — Michelle’s mind goes completely blank. Her chest tightens. Her words disappear. In the courtroom, she’s formidable. In that moment at the kitchen table, she’s eleven years old again, bracing for impact. “I know it’s irrational,” she tells me. “I can see it happening. I just can’t stop it.”

What Michelle is describing isn’t a failure of insight or willpower. It’s a nervous system doing exactly what nervous systems do when relational trauma is in the driver’s seat. And it’s precisely why relational trauma requires a different category of therapeutic response than most women are offered. The wound didn’t form through language. It won’t heal through language alone.

In my work with clients like Michelle, the turning point often comes when they stop searching for the right insight and start searching for the right container — a clinical relationship and a therapeutic approach that can meet the wound where it actually lives: in the body, in the right brain, in the parts of the nervous system that operate well below the reach of conscious thought. That shift in understanding changes everything.

This guide is for the driven, ambitious woman who has been brave enough to sit in a therapist’s office and still come away feeling like something essential wasn’t touched. It’s a clinically honest map of the modalities that actually work for relational trauma — and an honest account of what matters most when you’re choosing where to invest your healing.

Why Relational Trauma Needs More Than Talk Therapy

To understand why certain therapies work for relational trauma while others plateau, you need to understand where the wound actually lives. Relational trauma — the kind that forms in the context of chronic unattunement, emotional neglect, inconsistent caregiving, or family systems that prioritized performance over presence — doesn’t encode itself as a narrative. It encodes itself as a body state.

When a child grows up in a household where love is conditional, where expressing a need is dangerous, where the emotional temperature is unpredictable — the nervous system learns. It learns to brace. It learns to shrink. It learns to scan every face for signs of threat. These are not decisions made by the thinking brain. They are adaptations made by the survival brain, and they become hardwired into the body’s implicit memory system — the part of memory that operates without conscious awareness, that stores emotional and somatic experience rather than narrative facts.

Cognitive therapies — traditional talk therapy, CBT, even some psychodynamic approaches — work primarily through the prefrontal cortex: the logical, language-based, explicitly conscious parts of the brain. And here’s the neurological problem: when the nervous system detects a relational threat, real or perceived, the prefrontal cortex goes offline. As Bessel van der Kolk, MD, psychiatrist and trauma researcher and author of The Body Keeps the Score, has documented extensively, traumatic memory is “encoded in the viscera, in heartbreaking and gut-wrenching emotions” — not in language. You cannot think your way out of a wound that doesn’t speak in thoughts.

This is why so many driven, ambitious women can describe their childhood trauma with elegant precision and still find themselves flooded, frozen, or fawning the moment a relationship gets emotionally charged. The analysis is complete. The body hasn’t heard the memo. The therapies that work for relational trauma are the ones designed to reach that body — through the nervous system, through movement, through sensation, through the right-brained relational field between therapist and client.

The Neurobiology Behind Bottom-Up Healing

The therapies that genuinely move the needle on relational trauma share a common orientation: they work from the bottom up. Rather than beginning with cognition and hoping it filters down into the body, bottom-up approaches begin with the nervous system — with breath, sensation, movement, and somatic awareness — and allow regulation to travel upward, restoring access to the thinking brain along the way.

This approach is grounded in decades of neurobiological research. Peter Levine, PhD, psychologist and developer of Somatic Experiencing and author of Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma, observed that traumatized animals in the wild discharge survival energy through the body — shaking, trembling, completing the thwarted defensive movements that couldn’t be executed during the threat. Humans, he argued, have the same biological imperative, but we interrupt it. We think our way over our bodies. We manage our sensations rather than completing them. And the survival energy stays trapped, cycling through the nervous system as anxiety, dissociation, chronic pain, and relational reactivity.

Pat Ogden, PhD, psychologist and founder of Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, writes that “the body’s intelligence is largely an untapped resource in psychotherapy.” Her work demonstrates that when clients learn to track their physical sensations — the tightness in the chest, the urge to pull away, the collapse in the sternum — and work with those sensations directly, they access the implicit memory of relational trauma in a way that insight alone never can. The body, in this framework, isn’t just a container for the mind. It’s the primary site of both the wound and the healing.

Richard Schwartz, PhD, psychologist and founder of Internal Family Systems therapy, approaches this same territory from a different angle. He argues that the mind is organized into a system of “parts” — protective managers, exiled wounded parts, firefighters who step in during crisis — all orbiting a core Self that is calm, curious, and inherently capable of healing. Relational trauma, in his framework, creates a system where exiled parts carry the unbearable pain of early unmet needs while managers work overtime to keep that pain out of awareness. The driven woman’s perfectionism, her self-sufficiency, her hypervigilance — these aren’t character flaws. They’re protective parts doing an exhausting job.

And Francine Shapiro, PhD, psychologist and the researcher who developed Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), contributed a different but equally important piece: she demonstrated that the brain has an inherent information-processing system designed to metabolize disturbing experiences — and that bilateral stimulation (alternating eye movements, taps, or tones) can unlock that system when it has become frozen around a traumatic memory. What the brain couldn’t finish processing during the original experience, it can complete in the structured safety of an EMDR session.

How Relational Trauma Shows Up in Driven Women’s Therapy Journeys

What I see consistently in my work with driven, ambitious women is a particular kind of therapy fatigue. They’ve usually already been in therapy — sometimes for years. They’re sophisticated, self-aware, and genuinely motivated to heal. And yet something isn’t moving. The insight keeps accumulating. The body keeps doing what it does. The patterns in relationships keep repeating.

Part of what I see is a particular mismatch between the kind of therapy they’ve been offered and the kind of wound they’re carrying. Standard cognitive approaches, supportive therapy, even some psychodynamic work — these are genuinely valuable for many presenting concerns. But for complex relational trauma, the kind that formed in the earliest years when a child’s attachment system was learning whether the world is safe and whether they are lovable, they often hit a ceiling. The ceiling isn’t a failure of the client or the therapist. It’s a structural limitation of the approach.

Lisa is a pediatric surgeon — precise, decisive, a woman who controls every variable in a twelve-hour operating room. Outside the hospital, she can’t maintain a relationship past six months. She describes it as a “force field” around her heart: she wants closeness and simultaneously cannot tolerate it. She’d done years of supportive therapy, could articulate her anxious-avoidant attachment style flawlessly, and had genuinely warm relationships with her therapists. Nothing changed in her body’s response to intimacy until she began EMDR targeting the specific memory of being sent to her room as a child whenever she cried — her mother’s voice through the closed door saying, “Stop making a scene.” Twelve years of insight in five weeks of EMDR processing. Not because EMDR is magic, but because it finally reached the place where the wound lived.

This is a story I see often. The driven woman has done everything right. She’s done the journaling. She’s read the books. She’s been in therapy. What she hasn’t had — often through no fault of anyone’s, simply because most mental health training doesn’t go here — is a therapeutic approach that can access implicit memory, work with the nervous system directly, and use the therapeutic relationship itself as the primary instrument of healing.

When that combination finally comes together, the change is qualitatively different. Not just understanding the pattern — actually feeling the nervous system settle in a way it never has before. That’s the goal. That’s what we’re after. And it’s why modality matters so much — while also not being the whole picture, which we’ll come to.

The Modalities That Actually Reach the Wound

There is no single “best” therapy for relational trauma. What there is, however, is a set of approaches that are neurobiologically aligned with how relational trauma is stored and how healing actually occurs. Each has its own entry point, its own strengths, and its own ideal clinical context. A skilled trauma therapist will typically integrate several of these rather than working from a single model.

EMDR — Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing

Developed by Francine Shapiro, PhD, psychologist and researcher who pioneered the application of bilateral stimulation to trauma processing, EMDR is currently one of the most evidence-based approaches for trauma treatment. The core mechanism is bilateral stimulation — alternating left-right input through eye movements, taps, or tones — which appears to activate the brain’s natural information-processing system and allow traumatic memories to be metabolized rather than frozen.

In a standard EMDR session, you hold a disturbing memory in mind — the image, the associated body sensation, the negative belief it generated — while following the therapist’s fingers or holding small buzzers that alternate the stimulation. What clients often report is that the memory begins to shift: the emotional charge lessens, new associations emerge, and the experience begins to feel like something that happened in the past rather than something that’s happening right now.

For relational trauma specifically, EMDR is most powerful when adapted to address the complex, layered nature of the wound. Standard protocols were designed for single-incident trauma — a car accident, an assault, a specific event. Relational trauma is rarely a single event. It’s a pattern, a climate, a thousand small moments of disconnection or threat. The most skilled EMDR clinicians working with complex relational trauma will modify their approach significantly: building an extended resourcing phase, moving more slowly, weaving in attachment-based relational elements, and often integrating EMDR with IFS or somatic work to ensure the nervous system doesn’t become overwhelmed.

When it’s a fit, and when it’s practiced skillfully, EMDR can reach memories that years of talk therapy have never touched. Lisa’s story above is one example. What shifts isn’t just the cognitive appraisal of the memory — it’s the somatic charge of it. The body’s response to the trigger changes because the implicit memory itself has changed.

Somatic Experiencing — Healing the Nervous System First

Peter Levine, PhD, developed Somatic Experiencing (SE) from a foundational observation: animals in the wild don’t develop chronic PTSD the way humans do. They complete the biological stress response — the charge, the defensive movement, the discharge — and then shake it off and return to baseline. Humans, equipped with a prefrontal cortex capable of overriding these instinctual processes, often freeze the survival response mid-completion. The energy that was mobilized to survive doesn’t discharge. It stays in the nervous system as chronic tension, numbness, anxiety, or dissociation.

SE works by helping clients slowly, carefully access the physical sensations associated with a traumatic experience — not the story, not the cognitive meaning, but the body states — and gradually complete the biological response that was interrupted. This happens through titration: working in very small doses, approaching the edge of the traumatic material without flooding, and then returning to safety. And through pendulation: moving deliberately between distress and resource, between activation and settling, teaching the nervous system a rhythm it may never have learned.

For relational trauma specifically, SE is particularly well-suited to clients whose trauma response lives primarily in the body: chronic pain, gastrointestinal distress, autoimmune flares, persistent dissociation, extreme difficulty staying present in the body during intimacy. It’s also excellent for clients who become overwhelmed quickly in more talk-based or memory-focused approaches. SE doesn’t require narrating the trauma. It requires tracking the body. For women who have spent decades living from the neck up, that shift alone can be revolutionary.

Internal Family Systems — Parts Work for the Driven Woman’s Inner Architecture

Richard Schwartz, PhD, developed Internal Family Systems (IFS) from a recognition that the mind is naturally organized into a system of distinct parts — not a unified, singular self. In his framework, every person has a core Self — characterized by the eight Cs: calm, curiosity, clarity, compassion, creativity, confidence, courage, and connectedness. This Self is inherently healthy and capable of healing. Around it orbit parts: protective managers who keep the system running and prevent pain from surfacing, firefighters who use often-extreme behaviors (drinking, overworking, sexual compulsion, rage) to extinguish emotional pain when it does break through, and exiles — the vulnerable, wounded parts who carry the emotional pain of early relational trauma and who have been locked away because their pain felt unbearable.

For the driven, ambitious woman with relational trauma, IFS is often revelatory. Her achievement drive, her fierce self-sufficiency, her perfectionism, her inability to ask for help — these aren’t character traits. They’re managers. Parts who developed their strategies in a childhood environment where being exceptional was the only safe option, where needing anything from caregivers was dangerous, where love was conditional on performance. In IFS, you don’t try to eliminate these parts. You get curious about them. You ask what they’re protecting. You discover the exile underneath — the small child who learned that she had to earn her right to exist.

What Schwartz writes in No Bad Parts — that each part, “however harrowing its acting-out, however hidden, confusing” has “profoundly kind and wise insights” — is something I see confirmed in session after session. The driven woman’s most defended parts are usually the ones in the most pain. IFS creates a way to meet them without having to become them, to be present with the exile without being swept into exile’s terror. The healing happens through the relationship between Self and parts — a profoundly relational process, even when it’s happening entirely within one person.

Sensorimotor Psychotherapy — Where Body and Attachment Meet

Pat Ogden, PhD, founder of the Hakomi Institute and developer of Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, created a modality that sits at the precise intersection of somatic work and attachment theory. Where Somatic Experiencing focuses primarily on the nervous system’s biological response to threat, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy is specifically designed to address the attachment wounds that form when caregiving is unreliable, frightening, or absent — the core of relational trauma.

Ogden’s work draws on the insight that early attachment experiences are encoded not just in emotional memories but in the body’s habitual patterns of movement, posture, gesture, and breath. The child whose emotional needs were consistently dismissed may develop a characteristic posture of collapse — shoulders rounded inward, chest hollowed, gaze downward. This isn’t a choice. It’s the body adapting to a relational environment in which it learned that making itself visible, expressing a need, or reaching toward connection was dangerous. That postural pattern becomes part of how the person moves through the world decades later.

In Sensorimotor Psychotherapy, these somatic patterns become the primary therapeutic material. A client might spend an entire session noticing what happens in their body when they begin to reach toward the therapist — the impulse to extend a hand, the simultaneous tightening in the chest that says “don’t,” the collapse that follows. By working slowly and deliberately with these micro-movements, clients begin to complete the thwarted actions of early relational need — the reach toward comfort that was never safe to complete — and to experience, perhaps for the first time, that the body can express a need and receive a caring response. The implicit memory begins to update. The body learns something new about what’s possible in a relationship.

Attachment-Based and Relational Psychotherapy — The Foundation Beneath the Techniques

Underlying and integrating all of the above is a broader orientation that many skilled trauma therapists would call attachment-based or relational psychotherapy. This approach draws on the foundational work of John Bowlby, the British psychiatrist and psychoanalyst who developed attachment theory, and was significantly advanced by researchers including Mary Main, PhD, developmental psychologist at the University of California, Berkeley, who identified the concept of earned secure attachment — the remarkable finding that adults who experienced insecure or frightening childhood attachment relationships can develop something functionally equivalent to secure attachment through therapy or other corrective relational experiences.

The central premise of attachment-based therapy for relational trauma is simple and radical: what was wounded in relationship must be healed in relationship. The therapeutic relationship itself is not just the vehicle for delivering techniques. It is the primary instrument of healing. When a client experiences, perhaps for the first time, a consistent, attuned, boundaried relationship with a therapist who remains regulated in the face of her pain — who doesn’t disappear when she’s angry, who doesn’t withdraw when she needs too much, who doesn’t perform care while being emotionally absent — her nervous system begins to learn that safety with another person is possible. That learning is neurological. It’s an update to the implicit attachment model she’s been carrying since childhood.

What I see consistently in my work with clients is that the specific technique matters — and it matters less than the relational container in which it’s delivered. We’ll come to that more fully in the Both/And section. But it’s worth saying here: every effective trauma therapy for relational trauma, regardless of its specific modality, is at its core an attachment repair. The goal, in every case, is what attachment researchers call earned secure attachment — and the path to it always runs through a genuine, regulated, attuned relationship.

Both/And: The Modality Matters, and the Relationship Matters More

Here is the Both/And that I want to be honest with you about, because I think the therapy world doesn’t say it clearly enough: the specific modality you choose matters enormously. EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, IFS, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy — these are not interchangeable. They each reach the wound differently. The wrong modality for your presentation can plateau quickly, just as years of cognitive work can plateau when the wound is subcortical and somatic. Modality selection is a clinical decision, and it deserves careful consideration.

And. The therapeutic relationship — the specific human being sitting across from you, the quality of attunement they bring, whether your nervous system feels safe enough with them to actually do the work — matters more than any modality.

This isn’t a soft claim. It’s supported by decades of psychotherapy outcome research. The common factors literature — a body of research examining what actually predicts therapy success across modalities — consistently finds that the therapeutic alliance, particularly the quality of the relational bond between client and therapist, accounts for more outcome variance than the specific technique employed. In the treatment of relational trauma, this finding takes on an additional layer of meaning: for clients whose core wound is relational, the relationship is not just the vehicle for delivering the technique. It is the technique.

Aisha is a medical director at a major research hospital. She’s spent three years working with a highly credentialed EMDR therapist — certified, experienced, excellent by all external measures. The EMDR sessions themselves were skillfully conducted. And yet Aisha always left feeling subtly managed rather than genuinely met. Something in the therapeutic relationship felt efficient but not warm, competent but not safe. She could describe the distance. She couldn’t close it. The EMDR wasn’t working because the nervous system prerequisite for EMDR — sufficient felt safety with the therapist — was never fully established.

When Aisha eventually found a different therapist — one whose approach integrated parts-aware and attachment-based work — the container felt different from the first session. Not because the technique was superior, but because something in the relational field settled her nervous system in a way it hadn’t before. The work that followed was the deepest healing she’d experienced in years of trying. “I finally felt like I was being seen,” she told me, “not just processed.”

This is the Both/And: pursue modality with real discernment — know what EMDR is best suited for, know what IFS does that other approaches can’t, know the difference between a somatic approach and a cognitive one and why that distinction matters for your specific wound. And simultaneously, trust your nervous system’s response to the specific person across from you. Your body knows when it’s safe. Don’t override that signal in favor of credentials alone.

In my own clinical practice, my orientation is deeply integrative and attachment-based — informed by parts-aware concepts (drawing on IFS), interpersonal neurobiology, and somatic-informed approaches. My only formal certification is EMDR (EMDRIA). What I’ve come to believe, after thousands of clinical hours with driven, ambitious women, is that the modality is the map and the relationship is the territory. Both matter. The relationship matters more.

The Systemic Lens: Who Gets Access to Specialized Trauma Care

We can’t talk honestly about the best therapy for relational trauma without acknowledging the profound systemic inequity in who actually gets access to it.

Specialized trauma therapy — EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, IFS, Sensorimotor Psychotherapy — requires extensive post-graduate training. A certified EMDR therapist has completed a multi-day intensive plus supervised practice. A Somatic Experiencing Practitioner has completed a three-year training program. An IFS Level 1 or 2 clinician has invested significant time and money in specialized education. That training costs therapists money — and they pass it on to clients. The going rate for specialized trauma therapy in major metropolitan areas runs $250–$400 per session out of pocket. Most specialized trauma therapists don’t take insurance.

This means that access to the most effective treatment for relational trauma is, in large part, a function of financial privilege. The driven woman in a six-figure corporate role may be able to absorb that cost. The woman working two jobs to keep her children fed cannot. The driven woman’s wound is equally real. The specialized care that could reach it is equally effective. The access is not equally distributed.

Race compounds this inequity in multiple dimensions. Research has consistently documented that Black, Indigenous, and People of Color are underrepresented in specialized trauma training programs, meaning that clients of color are less likely to find a therapist who shares their racial and cultural context — which is itself a factor in therapeutic alliance and treatment efficacy. The theoretical frameworks underlying many trauma modalities were developed largely by white Western researchers and clinicians, and they carry embedded cultural assumptions that don’t always translate across cultural contexts. Resmaa Menakem, MSW, trauma therapist and author of My Grandmother’s Hands, has written powerfully about the ways racialized trauma lives in the body across generations — and about the need for healing approaches that center that somatic, cultural, and historical reality rather than treating it as peripheral.

Insurance gatekeeping adds another layer. Many insurance companies require a diagnosable mental health condition to authorize coverage, and the diagnostic categories available don’t always map cleanly onto the relational and developmental trauma that drives so much of the suffering described in this post. A client whose primary presenting concern is chronic relational difficulty, emotional dysregulation, and a deep sense of emptiness may be under-served by a system designed to treat discrete, acute disorders. And even when coverage exists, it often covers only a handful of sessions per year — far fewer than the sustained, long-term therapeutic relationship that complex relational trauma actually requires.

None of this means that healing is only possible for the privileged. Pre-licensed clinicians receiving specialized supervision often offer significantly reduced rates. Community mental health organizations provide trauma-informed care on sliding scales. Structured, evidence-based psychoeducation programs — including my own online course, Fixing the Foundations — offer a way to do meaningful foundational work outside the traditional therapy frame. Books, podcasts, and communities built around this research can supplement and support formal treatment.

But we owe it to ourselves and to each other to be honest: the system is not neutral. Access to specialized trauma care is a justice issue, not just a clinical one. And any conversation about the “best” therapy for relational trauma that doesn’t name this reality is telling an incomplete story.

How to Find a Therapist Who Can Actually Help

If you’ve read this far and you’re recognizing yourself — if you’re the driven woman who has been in therapy and still feels like something essential wasn’t touched — here is a practical guide to finding the clinical container that can actually reach your wound.

First, know what to look for in training. A therapist who identifies as “trauma-informed” has read the literature and completed some introductory training. That’s a baseline, not a specialization. What you’re looking for is a therapist with specific, advanced training in one or more of the modalities described in this post: EMDR certification, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) certification, IFS Level 1 or 2 training, or Sensorimotor Psychotherapy certification. These are not trivial credentials. They represent years of supervised clinical practice specifically in body-based, relational trauma work.

Second, ask direct clinical questions in a consultation. “What is your specific training in complex relational and developmental trauma?” “How do you incorporate the body into your work?” “What is your approach to the therapeutic relationship — do you see it as the primary instrument of healing, or as the vehicle for delivering a technique?” Listen carefully. A therapist who speaks with warmth and specificity about the role of the relational field, who can explain the difference between complex trauma and single-incident PTSD, who is genuinely curious about your specific presentation rather than promising a predetermined protocol — that’s a good sign.

Third, watch for red flags. Therapists who promise quick resolution of complex relational trauma. Therapists who rely exclusively on worksheets, psychoeducation, and homework. Therapists who seem uncomfortable with intense emotional expression in session. Therapists who maintain such a neutral, distant posture that you can’t feel their presence across the room. These may be fine clinicians for other presenting concerns. For relational trauma, they’re likely to hit the same ceiling your nervous system has already met.

Fourth, and I can’t say this strongly enough: trust your nervous system’s response in the first two or three sessions. Your body knows when it’s safe. If you’re working with someone technically skilled but your gut consistently tells you that something essential is missing, that signal is data. Relational trauma was created in relationships where you learned not to trust your own perceptual reality. Part of healing is beginning to trust it again. Feeling safe with your therapist isn’t a luxury. It’s a clinical prerequisite.

Fifth, consider seeking a consultation — a one-time or short-term meeting with a specialized clinician, even if you’re not ready for ongoing treatment. Many therapists, including myself, offer initial consultations where we can help you understand your specific presentation, clarify which modalities might be most appropriate, and identify the kind of clinician who would be the best fit for your healing. You don’t have to navigate this map alone.

If you’re not yet ready for individual therapy, or if access is a genuine barrier right now, Fixing the Foundations was specifically designed for this moment — to give you the psychoeducation, the somatic tools, and the attachment-informed framework that most women don’t get from traditional therapy, in a structured, self-paced format. And if you’re curious about the specific relational wounds driving your patterns, the relational trauma quiz is a good starting point for identifying what you’re working with.

The driven, ambitious woman you are — the one who has been holding everything together so competently for so long — deserves more than therapy that only scratches the surface. The wound is real. The healing is real. The path to it is specific, relational, and body-based. And it’s not out of reach.

If you’re ready to explore what trauma-informed therapy specifically designed for driven, ambitious women looks like, I’d be glad to have that conversation. Not every therapist is the right therapist for every client — and that’s exactly as it should be. What matters is finding the container where your nervous system can finally exhale.

Related Reading

1. Levine, Peter A. Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma. Berkeley: North Atlantic Books, 1997.
2. Schwartz, Richard C. No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model. Boulder: Sounds True, 2021.
3. Ogden, Pat, and Janina Fisher. Sensorimotor Psychotherapy: Interventions for Trauma and Attachment. New York: W.W. Norton & Company, 2015.
4. van der Kolk, Bessel A. The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. New York: Viking, 2014.
5. Herman, Judith Lewis. Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence — From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror. New York: Basic Books, 1992.
6. Shapiro, Francine. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy: Basic Principles, Protocols, and Procedures. 3rd ed. New York: Guilford Press, 2018.
7. Menakem, Resmaa. My Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies. Las Vegas: Central Recovery Press, 2017.
8. Fisher, Janina. Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors: Overcoming Internal Self-Alienation. New York: Routledge, 2017.

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• Fisher, Janina. Healing the fragmented selves of trauma survivors. Taylor & Francis Group, 2017.
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