Why Does My Life Look Perfect But Feel Empty?
LAST UPDATED: JULY 2026
You’ve built the career, the home, the life that looks remarkable from the outside, and inside, something feels hollow. This post is about why driven women feel empty despite real achievement, how childhood emotional neglect quietly trains you to build an impressive exterior while your inner world goes untended, and what it actually takes to close the gap between how your life looks and how it feels.
- The Standing Ovation That Echoed Into Silence
- What Is the Achievement-Emptiness Paradox?
- Why Does an Impressive Life Still Feel Hollow?
- What Does This Emptiness Actually Look Like in Driven Women?
- Where Does This Pattern Come From?
- Both/And: Can You Be Proud of Your Life and Still Grieve What’s Missing?
- The Systemic Lens: Whose Interests Does This Emptiness Actually Serve?
- How Do You Start Filling the House From the Inside?
- Frequently Asked Questions
The Standing Ovation That Echoed Into Silence
Rebecca stands at the edge of a stage in a downtown San Francisco hotel ballroom, the applause still ringing in her ears. She’s just accepted an industry award, the kind with a crystal trophy and a room full of people she’s spent fifteen years quietly impressing. Her name is on a plaque. Her photo will be in the company newsletter by Monday morning.
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She smiles for the photographer. She hugs the colleagues who crowd around her, their congratulations warm and genuine. She orders a glass of champagne at the reception and holds it without drinking. Then, in the Lyft home, alone in the backseat with the trophy wrapped in her blazer beside her, she feels it. A familiar hollow pulse behind her sternum. Not sadness, exactly. Not ingratitude. Something closer to standing in a house with no floors.
In my work with clients, I see this pattern so often it’s practically an archetype: the driven woman who’s built an objectively impressive life and can’t figure out why it doesn’t feel like enough. She assumes she just hasn’t done enough yet, so she works harder, achieves more, stacks another credential or promotion or renovation on top of the last one. The emptiness doesn’t budge. It can’t, because it was never about what’s missing on the outside. It’s about what was never built on the inside.
She unlocks the front door of her Palo Alto home, sets the trophy on the kitchen counter next to the fruit bowl, and stares at it. The house is quiet. The kids are asleep. Her husband is traveling. Instead of the warm, settled feeling she imagined this moment would bring, there’s just space. Unoccupied, echoing space.
If you’re a driven woman and you’ve ever stood inside a life that looks exactly the way you planned it and felt nothing, or worse, felt a quiet, bewildering hollowness, you’re not broken. You’re not ungrateful. And you’re not alone. What you’re experiencing has a name, and it has roots that go far deeper than whether you’ve achieved enough.
This post is about what’s actually happening when your life looks perfect but feels empty. It’s about the childhood roots of that disconnect, the neurobiology that keeps it locked in place, and the path toward finally filling the house from the inside out.
What Is the Achievement-Emptiness Paradox?
A pattern in which externally successful people, particularly those who experienced childhood emotional neglect or parentification, report persistent inner emptiness or disconnection despite objective markers of accomplishment. The paradox exists because the coping strategies that drove the achievement (suppressing emotional needs, performing for approval, prioritizing external metrics over internal experience) are the same strategies that block authentic fulfillment.
In plain terms: You learned early that your feelings didn’t matter, only your performance did, so you got very good at performing. Now you have the life you worked for, but the part of you that would actually enjoy it was never developed. The success is real. The emptiness is also real. Both exist at the same time.
I recently went back and reread Jonice Webb, PhD, clinical psychologist and author of Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect, and I haven’t been able to stop thinking about the way she names this. She describes the achievement-emptiness experience as the central consequence of growing up in a home where your emotional life was consistently overlooked, dismissed, or treated as irrelevant. The result, she writes, is an adult who appears fully functional, often exceptionally so, but who lives with a persistent, unnamed sense that something fundamental is missing.
What I see in my practice is that driven women are especially vulnerable to this pattern, not because they’re more fragile, but because the traits that made them successful were often forged in the fire of emotional neglect. They learned early that the way to stay safe, to earn love, to be seen at all, was to do. The doing became the entire architecture of their identity, and when you build an identity entirely on doing, there’s no room left for being.
This is different from depression, though it can coexist with it. The achievement-emptiness paradox is specifically about the gap between external presentation and internal experience, a gap installed in childhood that’s been running silently in the background ever since. Understanding relational trauma is essential to seeing why this gap exists.
Why Does an Impressive Life Still Feel Hollow?
The emptiness driven women describe isn’t a character flaw or a failure of gratitude. It’s a neurobiological consequence of chronic stress operating beneath the surface of an outwardly functional life. Here’s what the research has been showing for decades, and what I see in session every week: three mechanisms help explain why your brain can build an empire while your body quietly starves.
The cumulative physiological wear and tear that results from chronic or repeated activation of the body’s stress-response systems. Coined by neuroscientist Bruce McEwen, the concept describes how sustained demands, even those that feel manageable, erode the brain and body over time, particularly affecting the hippocampus, prefrontal cortex, and immune function.
In plain terms: Your body has been running on a low-grade stress alarm for so long that it doesn’t even register as stress anymore. It just feels like life. Underneath, the constant hum of vigilance is wearing down your brain, your immune system, and your capacity to feel pleasure. You’re not tired because you’re weak. You’re tired because your system has been paying a hidden tax for decades.
Bruce McEwen, PhD, neuroscientist and former head of the Harold and Margaret Milliken Hatch Laboratory of Neuroendocrinology at The Rockefeller University, spent decades documenting how allostatic load reshapes the brain, and his 2000 paper on the topic is one I return to often. His research showed that chronic stress doesn’t just make you feel bad. It physically remodels neural architecture, shrinking dendrites in the hippocampus (the brain’s memory and context center) while enlarging the amygdala (the brain’s threat-detection system). For driven women carrying unprocessed relational trauma, this means the brain is wired to scan for danger and suppress emotional experience, even in environments that are objectively safe (McEwen 2000, PMID: 10649824).
The second mechanism is the default mode network, a group of brain regions that activate when we’re not focused on external tasks. It’s the brain’s self-referential processing system, where you reflect on who you are, what you feel, and what your experiences mean. Marcus Raichle, MD, neurologist at Washington University School of Medicine and the scientist who first identified this network, has shown that in people with histories of chronic stress and emotional suppression, it can become dysregulated, either hyperactive, which leads to rumination, or suppressed, which leads to emotional numbness and a diminished sense of self (Raichle 2015, PMID: 25938726).
For women who learned in childhood to suppress their inner experience, this network often operates in a muted state. When the boardroom clears and the house goes quiet, the part of your brain that’s supposed to tell you how you feel has very little to say. That hollow feeling isn’t nothing. It’s the sound of a self-referential system that was never allowed to fully develop.
The third piece is hedonic adaptation, the well-documented process by which the emotional impact of positive events fades over time. What stayed with me when I first read Ed Diener, PhD, psychologist at the University of Illinois and a pioneering researcher in subjective well-being, was how consistently his findings, along with those of Richard Lucas, PhD, of Michigan State University, showed that humans adapt to both positive and negative life changes faster than they expect. It’s sometimes called the “hedonic treadmill.” For driven women, the promotion or milestone that was supposed to finally feel like enough becomes baseline within weeks, not because they’re ungrateful, but because their nervous system is calibrated for pursuit, not for savoring (Diener, Lucas, and Scollon 2006, PMID: 16719675).
Combine allostatic load, a body running on fumes, with a suppressed default mode network and hedonic adaptation, and you get the neurobiological blueprint of a perfect life that feels empty. This isn’t a mindset problem. It’s a wiring problem, and wiring can change once you understand what you’re dealing with. Understanding functional freeze is one way to start recognizing how this shows up in your daily life.
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Peer-reviewed findings that inform this clinical framework:
- In a 2011 analysis of emotion word use, roughly 64% of feeling words expressed pleasure and 34% expressed displeasure across a large text corpus (Augustine, Mehl, and Larsen 2011, PMID: 31071361)
- Brickman, Coates, and Janoff-Bulman’s landmark 1978 study found lottery winners were not significantly happier than non-winners within roughly a year of their windfall (Brickman, Coates, and Janoff-Bulman 1978, PMID: 690806)
What Does This Emptiness Actually Look Like in Driven Women?
In my clinical work, I’ve noticed that the emptiness driven women carry doesn’t look the way most people imagine emptiness looks. It doesn’t look like lying in bed unable to function. It looks like functioning at an extraordinarily high level while quietly wondering why none of it registers.
Rebecca, the woman from the opening of this post, is a composite drawn from many clients I’ve worked with over the years. She’s a VP of engineering at a mid-stage startup in the South Bay, running a department of forty-two people. She’s on the board of her kids’ school, exercises five days a week, and keeps a color-coded family calendar that would make a project manager weep. From the outside, she’s got it figured out.
But in our sessions, Rebecca describes a persistent sense of performing her own life rather than living it. “I keep waiting for the moment when it clicks,” she tells me. “When I actually feel like I’m here.” She describes standing at her daughter’s birthday party, surrounded by people who love her, and feeling like she’s watching the scene from behind glass. She knows she should feel happy. She can see all the ingredients of happiness laid out in front of her. But the feeling itself won’t land.
This is what rest resistance looks like in its most disguised form. Not the inability to rest, but the inability to arrive. To be present in your own experience. To let a good moment actually touch you.
Here are some of the ways this pattern shows up in the driven women I work with:
The “what’s next” reflex. Within minutes of achieving something significant, you’re already scanning for the next goal. The promotion lands and you’re thinking about the one above it. There’s no pause, no savoring, no moment of “I did this and it matters.” Just forward motion.
Social fluency without intimacy. You can work a room beautifully. You’re the person everyone calls competent, warm, put-together. But underneath that social skill is a deep loneliness, a sense that nobody really knows you, because you don’t quite know yourself. Your relationships are wide but not deep.
Achievement as anesthesia. You use work the way other people use substances, to numb, to fill, to avoid the quiet. When things slow down, the emptiness gets louder, so you make sure things never slow down. Vacations feel uncomfortable. Weekends feel long. Retirement sounds like a nightmare.
Guilt about the emptiness itself. You look at your life, inventory everything you have, and feel ashamed that it’s not enough. “I have no right to feel this way” is one of the most common sentences I hear from clients in this pattern. The guilt becomes its own cage, trapping you in a cycle of performing gratitude you don’t actually feel.
If you recognize yourself in any of these descriptions, hear this clearly: the emptiness isn’t a sign that something is wrong with you. It’s a sign that something important was missing from the beginning, something that happened long before the career, the house, or the award.
Where Does This Pattern Come From?
To understand why your life looks perfect but feels empty, you have to go back to the blueprint. For most driven women carrying this pattern, the blueprint was drawn in childhood, specifically in a childhood where your emotional interior was consistently ignored, dismissed, or treated as inconvenient.
A pattern of caregiving in which a child’s emotional needs for attunement, validation, comfort, and mirroring are consistently unmet. Unlike abuse, which involves the presence of something harmful, emotional neglect involves the absence of something essential. It’s often invisible both to the child and to outside observers, which makes it particularly difficult to identify and name in adulthood.
In plain terms: Nobody hit you. Nobody called you names. But nobody asked how you felt, either. Nobody noticed when you were scared, or sad, or overwhelmed. You learned that your inner world didn’t count, that only your outer world mattered, and you built your entire life accordingly.
Childhood emotional neglect doesn’t leave bruises. It’s the dog that didn’t bark, the attunement that should have been there and simply wasn’t. I’ve come to think of this as the quietest kind of wound, precisely because there’s no visible injury to point to. Stephanie Brown, PhD, psychologist whose research examines the emotional aftermath of neglect, and colleagues have shown that emotional neglect is uniquely linked to alexithymia, the inability to identify and describe one’s own emotions, which in turn mediates the relationship between emotional neglect and adult depression, anxiety, and loneliness. When your feelings weren’t attended to as a child, you don’t just lose access to those feelings. You lose the capacity to know what you feel (Brown et al. 2018, PMID: 28414491).
For driven women, this creates a specific and devastating architecture. You learn that your value lies in what you produce, not in who you are. You become extraordinarily attuned to what other people need, while remaining almost entirely disconnected from what you need. Your emotional labor goes outward. Nothing comes back in.
Jennifer is another composite client who illustrates this pattern. She’s a cardiologist at a major Bay Area hospital, and she came to therapy not because anything was obviously wrong, but because she couldn’t figure out why she felt so flat. “I have the life my parents dreamed of for me,” she says. “I’m the first woman in my family to become a doctor. I should be proud. I am proud. But I feel like I’m watching someone else be proud.”
In our work together, Jennifer began to trace the outlines of a childhood defined by parentification, a relational dynamic in which the child takes on the emotional or practical responsibilities of the parent. Her mother struggled with chronic depression. Her father worked long hours and was emotionally absent. By nine, Jennifer was cooking dinner, managing her siblings’ homework, and serving as her mother’s primary emotional confidante. She learned that her job was to hold things together, and that her own needs were, at best, irrelevant.
A form of role reversal in which a child is assigned, implicitly or explicitly, the emotional or practical responsibilities of a parent. Emotional parentification involves the child managing a caregiver’s emotional state, serving as confidante, mediator, or comforter. Instrumental parentification involves the child assuming household management, sibling care, or financial responsibilities beyond their developmental capacity.
In plain terms: You weren’t raised. You were recruited. The adults in your life needed you to function as a small adult, so you did, brilliantly. But the child who needed care, play, and freedom to just be? She got pushed to the back of the line. And she’s still there.
Jennifer’s path from parentified child to driven cardiologist isn’t a coincidence. The skills she built in childhood, hypervigilance to others’ needs, composure under pressure, the ability to manage complex systems without complaining, translated perfectly into medical training. She was praised for her resilience. Nobody noticed that underneath the composure was a woman who hadn’t been asked what she wanted in thirty years.
This is the cruel efficiency of relational trauma. It takes your wound and turns it into a skill set that earns you applause, and it ensures the applause never fills the hole, because the hole isn’t about accomplishment. It’s about the absence of being known, seen, and met for who you actually are.
The emptiness Jennifer describes, that sense of watching herself live her own life from a distance, is a direct consequence of a childhood in which her emotional interior was sacrificed to keep the family functioning. She built a magnificent exterior because that’s what survival demanded. But the interior was never built at all.
“Addiction begins when a woman loses her handmade and meaningful life, when she is no longer goddess of her own instinctual territory, when she is not the one who decides…”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, PhD, Jungian analyst and author of Women Who Run With the Wolves
Both/And: Can You Be Proud of Your Life and Still Grieve What’s Missing?
If you’re reading this and recognizing yourself, I want to hold something important with you: this isn’t about dismissing your achievements. Your career is real. Your competence is real. The life you’ve built required intelligence, discipline, and extraordinary effort. None of that is diminished by the fact that something underneath it aches.
In my clinical work, I use a framework I’ve come to call “Both/And,” because the most important truths about relational trauma are almost always paradoxes. The paradox at the heart of this post is one of the most difficult to hold:
Your achievements are genuinely impressive AND they were partially built on a foundation of pain.
You can be grateful for your life AND you can grieve what’s missing inside it.
You can honor the survival strategies that got you here AND you can recognize they’re no longer serving you.
What I’ve seen in my own clinical training, and confirmed again and again in over fifteen thousand clinical hours, is that naming the emptiness doesn’t destroy what you’ve built. It actually makes it possible, for the first time, to inhabit it. You can’t live in a house you’ve never truly entered. And you can’t enter it until you acknowledge that the door has been locked from the inside.
The grief that comes with this recognition is real, and it deserves space. You’re grieving the childhood you should have had, the one where someone noticed you were overwhelmed and said “you don’t have to hold all of this.” You’re grieving the decades you spent building outward because nobody taught you how to build inward. You’re grieving the parts of yourself that got left behind when the performing started.
This grief isn’t self-pity. It’s the beginning of repairing the foundations.
The Systemic Lens: Whose Interests Does This Emptiness Actually Serve?
It would be incomplete, and clinically irresponsible, to talk about this pattern without naming the larger system that sustains it. The achievement-emptiness paradox doesn’t happen in a vacuum. It happens inside a culture that actively rewards emotional suppression, relentless productivity, and the performance of having it all together.
This is especially true for women in Silicon Valley’s tech ecosystem, in medicine, in law, in finance, environments where “crushing it” is the highest compliment and admitting to emptiness or unmet emotional needs is treated as professional weakness. The culture doesn’t just fail to notice the gap between external success and internal experience. It actively punishes anyone who names it.
Consider the messages driven women absorb from the time they’re young. Be independent. Don’t be needy. Work harder than everyone else and make it look effortless. There’s an entire industrial complex built around convincing women that the answer to every form of dissatisfaction is more achievement. Another certification, another promotion, another productivity system, another redesigned kitchen.
What this culture never says is that maybe the emptiness isn’t a problem to be solved with more doing. Maybe it’s a signal that something was taken from you a long time ago, and the only way to get it back is to stop performing long enough to feel it.
The systemic dimension also shows up in who gets access to this kind of insight. Trauma-informed, depth-oriented therapy remains expensive, time-consuming, and culturally stigmatized in many communities. Women of color, immigrant women, and women in male-dominated industries face additional barriers, not just internal ones, but external messaging that says your pain is a luxury and seeking help is an indulgence reserved for people who have less to prove.
This is why I believe healing the achievement-emptiness paradox is both personal and political. It’s personal because it requires each woman to turn inward, to grieve, to rebuild her relationship with her own emotional interior. It’s political because it requires naming, loudly and clearly, a culture that manufactures this suffering and then sells the cure in the form of more achievement.
If you’re a driven woman who’s spent your entire life being told that your value is your output, I want you to hear this: the emptiness you feel isn’t a failure of effort. It’s the predictable consequence of a system that trained you to build outward and ignore inward. You don’t need to achieve more. You need to be met, truly met, for the first time. That’s what trauma-informed therapy can support.
How Do You Start Filling the House From the Inside?
Healing the achievement-emptiness paradox isn’t about dismantling your life or abandoning your ambitions. It’s about building an interior that can actually hold the life you’ve created. Here’s what that process tends to look like in clinical practice.
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1. Name the pattern out loud, to another human being. The emptiness thrives in silence. It feeds on the shame of “I should be happy.” The first and most radical step is saying to someone, a therapist, a trusted friend, a partner, “My life looks great and I feel hollow.” That sentence, spoken aloud, breaks the seal. It interrupts the performance. It lets the air in. Taking a relational trauma quiz can be a private first step toward naming what you’re carrying.
2. Learn to identify your own emotions, from the ground up. If you grew up with childhood emotional neglect, you may have a sophisticated vocabulary for other people’s feelings and almost none for your own. Therapy focused on building interoceptive awareness, the ability to notice and name internal body sensations and their emotional correlates, is foundational here. It’s rebuilding neural pathways that were never fully developed.
3. Practice tolerating rest without filling it. For driven women, stillness can feel dangerous, because stillness is where the emptiness lives. But stillness is also where the self lives, when the self is finally given room. Start small. Five minutes of sitting without a phone, without a task, without a plan. Notice what arises. Notice the urge to flee from it. Stay anyway. Understanding why rest feels so threatening can help you approach this practice with more self-compassion.
4. Grieve what you missed. This is often the hardest part, and the most necessary. The child who was parentified, who was emotionally neglected, who had to build her own scaffolding from scratch, that child lost something. She lost the experience of being seen and held and known without earning it. Grieving that loss doesn’t mean wallowing. It means honoring the weight of what happened and releasing the body’s stored response to it. Structured therapeutic work can support this process with safety and pacing.
5. Build relationships where you’re met, not just admired. The emptiness often lives in relationships that mirror childhood, ones where you’re valued for what you do rather than who you are. Healing means learning to seek out relationships where someone sees behind the performance and stays. This is where relational trauma heals, in relationship, not in isolation or more achievement.
6. Redefine what enough means. You’ve been operating on a definition of “enough” that was installed before you had any say in the matter. Enough was “whatever keeps people happy.” Enough was “more.” Healing means building your own definition, one rooted in your actual experience, your actual body, your actual desires, not the ones you inherited.
This is long-term work. It doesn’t happen in a weekend workshop, though that can be a useful entry point. It happens in the steady, week-by-week practice of turning inward with curiosity instead of judgment, often with the support of trauma-informed coaching or individual therapy designed for driven women navigating this terrain.
What I tell Rebecca, and Jennifer, and every client sitting in my office with this ache, is that the emptiness isn’t permanent. It feels permanent because it’s been there so long it became invisible. But it’s a wound, and wounds, when they’re properly tended, heal.
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If your life looks perfect but feels empty, if you’ve been performing wholeness without ever quite arriving at it, you don’t have to carry this alone. The gap between how your life looks and how it feels isn’t evidence of failure. It’s a map, pointing toward the part of you that’s been waiting, all this time, to finally be met. Rebecca is still doing this work. So is Jennifer. And the Strong and Stable community holds space for it every Sunday morning. You’re welcome here.
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Q: Why do I feel empty even though I have everything I’ve ever wanted?
A: Because the emptiness isn’t about what you have. It’s about what was never built inside you. When childhood emotional neglect or parentification trains you to focus exclusively on external achievement, the internal capacity to feel fulfillment, connection, and presence doesn’t develop. Your achievements are real, and so is the emptiness. Both can be true simultaneously. The work of therapy isn’t to dismiss what you’ve built. It’s to finally build the interior that can hold it.
Q: Is feeling empty the same as being depressed?
A: Not necessarily, though they can coexist. Depression typically involves changes in sleep, appetite, energy, and motivation that affect daily functioning. The achievement-emptiness paradox often looks different: you’re functioning at a high level and appearing successful, but the emotional interior feels hollow or disconnected. A trauma-informed therapist can help you tell the difference.
Q: Can I be emotionally neglected if my parents provided for me financially and were physically present?
A: Absolutely. Childhood emotional neglect is specifically about what didn’t happen: the emotional attunement, validation, and mirroring that should have been there. Many emotionally neglected children grew up in materially comfortable homes with parents who were physically present but emotionally unavailable. The absence of overt harm makes it harder to identify, which is part of why it’s so insidious. You can have had a “good childhood” by every visible measure and still carry deep wounds from what was missing.
Q: Will I lose my drive and ambition if I start addressing the emptiness?
A: This is one of the most common fears I hear from driven women in therapy, and I understand it. Your drive has been your survival strategy, so it makes sense to worry that dismantling it means losing everything it built. What I see in clinical practice is often the opposite. The compulsion tends to give way to genuine desire. The frantic doing gives way to purposeful action. You don’t necessarily lose your edge. You gain more capacity to enjoy what your edge produces.
Q: How long does it take to heal from childhood emotional neglect?
A: There’s no universal timeline, and I’m wary of anyone who promises one. The depth and duration of the neglect, other adverse childhood experiences, your current support system, and the quality of the therapeutic relationship all influence pace. This tends to be longer-term work, often measured in years rather than weeks, but the direction of the work matters more than the speed of it.
Q: I feel guilty for complaining when my life is objectively good. Is that normal?
A: That guilt is one of the most reliable hallmarks of this pattern. It’s not a sign that your pain isn’t valid. It’s actually a continuation of the same dynamic from childhood, the belief that your emotional experience doesn’t deserve attention. The guilt keeps you silent, and the silence keeps you stuck. Naming the emptiness isn’t complaining. It’s the first act of emotional honesty you may have allowed yourself in decades. You don’t need to earn the right to your own feelings.
Related Reading
Webb, Jonice. Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect. New York: Morgan James Publishing, 2012.
McEwen, Bruce S. “Allostasis and Allostatic Load: Implications for Neuropsychopharmacology.” Neuropsychopharmacology 22, no. 2 (2000): 108-124. PMID: 10649824.
Diener, Ed, Richard E. Lucas, and Christie Napa Scollon. “Beyond the Hedonic Treadmill: Revising the Adaptation Theory of Well-Being.” American Psychologist 61, no. 4 (2006): 305-314. PMID: 16719675.
Brown, Stephanie M., Keith Fite, Katherine Stone, and Terri Blevins. “Associations Between Emotional Abuse and Neglect and Dimensions of Alexithymia.” Psychological Trauma: Theory, Research, Practice, and Policy 10, no. 3 (2018): 300-308. PMID: 28414491.
Raichle, Marcus E. “The Brain’s Default Mode Network.” Annual Review of Neuroscience 38 (2015): 433-447. PMID: 25938726.
Brickman, Philip, Dan Coates, and Ronnie Janoff-Bulman. “Lottery Winners and Accident Victims: Is Happiness Relative?” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 36, no. 8 (1978): 917-927. PMID: 690806.
References
Books & Cultural Sources (Chicago Author-Date)
- Estés, Clarissa Pinkola. Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype. New York: Ballantine Books, 1992.
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